Are their any straight/bi guys out there that can have frank discussions with their buddies about sexuality-- no holes barred, no judgements. If so, how did it start? How often do you talk? I have always wanted to talk to my guy friends about sexuality. We're all married and in our mid to late 30's. Two of them are almost like brothers to me. When we hang out together, we seem to be able to talk about everything else-- our jobs, sports, cars, home improvements, sometimes politics. I think having an open conversation about sex would strengthen our friendship. But I'm too nervous to bring on the topic-- even one-on-one. I'm curious to know if we have similar fantasies. What do they do sexually with their wives? Have any of them had a gay experience? I going through some personal issues right now, and I think it would help if I could share experiences/swap stories with people I know and care about-- my friends. But this is tough. Sexuality is taboo-talk for guys. So how do I cross that line, or should I? Serious and honest replies only, please. Thanks.