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Discussion in 'Sex With a Large Penis' started by BigD_2, Jan 4, 2009.
Did gay stuff go on in your frat house? Like what? How often?
no - I lived in my house for 2 years. Nothing gay that I can recall - we had communal showers, lots of nudity - but nothing sexual. We had one brother that was hung and had LOTS of girls - he would score like every night of the world. We would sit on his balcony and drink beer and watch him bang these girls all of the time. We would be 4 feet away and it was awesome.
Not sure how you'd search it, but we've had this thread topic several times before. It's always been concluded that the guys that were actually in houses, rarely encountered half of what the guys that weren't in them, fantasized about. :wink:
how was he able to score every night? reputation? skills? Looks? big dick?
I wanna score every night too...
I was in a fraternity house for one academic year, in 1978-79 (before I transferred to another university), and my answer is no, as far as I ever heard or saw. I would say that the phrase "Don't ask, don't tell," which had not yet been put into circulation at that time, would describe the unspoken policy. There was one guy of whom I later heard that he had come out as gay, and there was another guy whose manner was almost flaming but who was accepted because he was entertaining and had the sharpest verbal come-backs of anyone in the house. Certainly, though, social life proceeded on an assumption of universal heterosexuality. I don't know if that has changed since then.
Absolutely nothing like that happened in my fraternity house. I lived there for close to 2 years. One guy came out and was pretty much run out of the fraternity for it. Unfortunately he chose the wrong brothers to come out to. Novice btm put it perfectly when he said "guys that were actually in houses, rarely encountered half of what the guys that weren't in them, fantasized about". There is lot of homophobia in fraternities and nothing homosexual - that's just a fantasy, not reality.
In my opinion, looks - he was fuckin built like hell and he had a good size pecker. He was the stud of our house -
I think that it's one of those things where more people wish it was as hot as the concept lends to being...if that makes sense.
It's like sorority pajama pillow fights. Alot of guys just imagine all the lesbian-ish action that could possibly be going on inside the walls, but in reality they mostly just do homework and talk about boys.
Gay guys imagine that with all the "hazing" that goes on in a frat house that it almost always leads to daisy chains and mass fuck sessions; but more often than not, gay acts in frat houses are more for comedy than sexual release.
I think that's why fratpad.com is so popular because it totally plays into the whole "secret sexual desires" of straight college guys...which is mostly BS.
Homoerotic? God, everywhere you looked, from nude rooftop sunbathing to nude lacrosse on the field nextdoor to nude waterpolo in the college pool (after hours) to spontaneous puppy piles in nothing but gym shorts.
We thought nothing of it. Just youthful exuberance.
I lived in our house for a year and yea, other than the usual horseplay of drunken, hormonal 18 to 22 year olds there was overtly "homosexual". There were a few gay/bi guys (I was in denial at that point), they kept it on the DL (or so they thought, was the worst kept secret in the chapter)...but was not a big deal and never discussed much less acted upon openly.
The experience was worth it. Nothing says big fun like navigating your way to the showers through a sea of puke on Sunday morning. Glad I did it....but glad I grew out of it too.
we didnt have much gay shit goin on, mostly alot of jakin off, a lil bromance here and there, some carried to weirdness level, but there was alot of nudity and hetero gang bangin , if you get a lil sis drunk the bros turn into a pack of dogs....horny dogs....the concept of date rape hadn't been criminalized by the feminazi's yet. but when that DUKE lacrosse thing hit the news I thought the description of what went down sounded pretty typical of our house....most of the fun i had in the house was fueled by alcohol if you weren't drunk or stoned it would have just seemed lame and stupid. I agree with biitalianbro glad i did it, was a great exposure to practical sociology, or maybe even antrhopology.
I lived in a frat house for three years. There were guys who were hung and did what were termed "sport fucks" where they'd leave the blinds open so others could see them fucking girls. Personally I never saw it. One roommate did it (dammit I wasn't there) and it was legendary among those who witnessed it. I did "hear" lots of sex though as the walls weren't very thick, even with decades of paint, smoke and beer.
It was sort of accepted that anyone who was gay sort of drifted off campus where they could do whatever they wanted without notice. As long as no one saw it directly, I think a lot of the guys didn't care. However, bring it into the house and being in the late 1980s, that would have been recipe for getting kicked out. There was no political correctness or acceptance if confronted with the issue. Very prudish and closeted in many ways.
Lots of communal showers though - saw all sorts of penises - huge to small and in between. Saw some guys in the showers in the early AM with erections - probably because they didn't think ANY college student would be up at 6 or 7am unless they were drunk. But otherwise, it was just a shower.
I did recall a night of nude volleyball with a select few "little sisters" being the referees. They were gawking left and right and generally staring at everyone's packages for all it was worth. I think some of the guys enjoyed it and tried it on other nights but it didn't become a habit.
Pledges were physically challenged frequently, but no elephant walks, no sucking a pledge brother off or anything remotely like that was ever forced on anyone I ever saw or heard of. One night there was a contest to see who had the biggest dick in my pledge class but believe me, it wasn't porno-worthy to witness. Now, the guy who did win, he was a freak. Skinny and had about an 8-9 inch dick when erect. He was one of those guys who showered early so that he wouldn't be bothered by everyone gawking and asking questions.
I agree that in the "old days", the reality of the frat house was nothing like what you see in gay porn set in "frat" houses. At least in my experience.
I did hear of one guy in another frat getting caught during summer school fucking another guy...the house was empty and some alumni came through to inspect for summer time repairs and viola...a free show. It didn't go over so well with the alums or for the frat guy. He left school and went to California.
So overall I'd say like a lot of things, fantasies are better left uncompared to reality.