Any college students out there in Fraternities? If so, what kind [Social, Academic, Service]? I'm interested in joining a fraternity but I'm also gay. I attend a rather liberal college and several of the Fraternities on my campus already have gay members in them. However, I don't know why they joined or what they went/are going through as a gay frat. And what about the whole hazing rituals? I know it's illegal in my state, but the I don't actually know what goes on behind the scenes. Anyone already gone through the process or have any insight for me? And NO, i'm not interested in joining a frat for the sake of getting close to straight guys [or the gay ones] for those of you who might be thinking that.