1. genpenmen

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    Are most frats really gay?

    I went to party once and a pledge keep on hitting on me, Has this happened to anyone else? Any stories?
     
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    not that i know of, most of those videos you see online are of a made up frat, to fulfill peoples fantasies
     
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    No. I've never heard of things like this. I belong to two fraternities and neither fraternity as ever done anything remotely considered gay.

    Simba
     
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    Fraternity member here, never seen anything gay go on in our house. There might be a couple guys in the house that are gay, but if there's around 100 members, one would expect a handful to be gay.
     
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    WTF?

    ONE guy hits on you and that somehow means ALL frat-life is "Gayland"?

    Seriously?
     
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    obviously you've never been in a fraternity! Get it right...........your don't call your country a cunt and you don't call your Fraternity a frat!
     
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    Former frat boy here too. Never saw anything even remotely gay in my frat. Even the one or two guys I think people might've suspected were slightly gay were still fucking girls, drinking and partying it up!
     
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    Frat brothers will not break that code of .silence and divulge each others business so easily. Initiation routines are normally quite homoerotic in nature, and stuff goes on behind closed doors, with much the same frequency as anywhere else in college.
     
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    How the fuck would you know that? How many initiation rituals of various fraternity's do you know considering they are a fairly well kept secret?

    Mine certainly wasn't. At one point we were in our boxers, no big deal, not out of some gay thing, but as part of the symbolism being described and then being re clothed in something new at a later point.
     
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    I am in a fraternity as well and nothing gay occured during our rituals or during initation (now called in-take). As mentioned by model_husband, there were times when we changed clothing during certain times for certain things during the process, but nothing erotic or homosexual occured.

    I also echo his questioning about how folk know so much about initiation rituals? This is ludicrous, as these ceremonies are kept secret and occur in private places, and only MEMBERS and future-initiated members know what is going on....
     
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    so let me get this correct- ONE guy at a 'frat party' HIT on you...

    if one guy had farted would you be saying "are all frat guys flatulent?" (actually a pledge...)

    if one guy had worn a wig "are all frat guys cross dressers?"

    if one guy had been using heroin "are all frat guys junkies?"

    (or what about 'are all frat guys BI sexual?' (we are assuming you are so hot that the guys HAD to hit on you...forget drunken, etc...etc...etc..

     
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    First I want everyone to understand that I made no assumation. I asked a question I didn't make a statement I never said that they all were or weren't. I thought the whole point of being on here was to ask questions and get real answers that is why I asked. I never said anything in a negative way, you all took it as something negative. I was falttered at first but when one turned into four within ten minutes I got uncoformatable.

    Aslo everyone that used my quote twisted it into what they wanted to see, I find being a black man that having prejudgements are outdated once again I implore you to take another look at the question.
     
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    You are correct, you didn't say they all were or were not, instead you said most - from the experience of one. Even by the most liberal standards, that is a pretty bad generalization.

    And again you're correct, the whole point of asking questions is to get answers, but I implore you to take a look at your questioning. The very first sentence was "Are most frats really gay?" You then explained that one guy hit on you (a pledge). We didn't know, until know, that you were hit on by four men at that party. Either way, according to your statements so far, none of the men that hit on you are members of a fraternity, but you ask us if most frats are gay? Do you see the issue in your questioning?

    And that's what gets people here riled up; overly confident generalizations. Be cautious and careful next time and phrase your questions wisely. Try to avoid generalizations - give specifics and try to provide as much detail as you can in the beginning so people can give you the best response to your question based on the best information you can provide.

    Welcome to the site. Hope you enjoy your stay.

    Simba
     
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    Never met an openly gay frat guy on my college campus.
     
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    On my campus, there was one frat with a ton of gay guys in the frat. Ironically enough, I was offered a spot in that fraternity, haha. The other two frats, one had one gay guy, and the other had none. But I went to a private liberal arts (read: hippie) college. I don't think this is the standard at most other colleges from what I've gathered.
     
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    Going to repeat an experience a gay friend of mine had. He was invited to be of service at a frat party. Well known, straight fraternity. They put him in a room upstairs and placed a full sheet of plywood over the doorway that had a fist sized hole in it at the optimum service height. He told of all shapes and sizes of guys walking up to the hole that night and sliding their cocks in it as he blew each one until they exploded and withdrew. If my memory serves me right, it was 28 hot jockboys that he drained at that party. He said that he wasn't able to even swallow his own spit for two days after that because his muscles were so overworked. This story doesn't prove that frat guys are gay, but in my opinion it proves that alcohol lowers an already horny mans inhibitions. It may be another thread for another time, but I wonder how many of us have put our chest against a wall with a hole in it. Some straight guys appreciate the anonimity of a quick bj.
    Feel free to email me with your responses or personal balls to the walls stories.
     
  17. D_Meurius_Rump

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    Well gay/gay-friendly frats exist, I know several members of one
     
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    I am in one of the longest-running fraternities in the country, and even our national headquarters knows there's a huge portion of the fraternity that's gay - it's called the "60-40" demographic - and yes, I've been drunk and hit on my brothers, some of my brothers have been drunk and hit on me - a couple of our brothers have even been in a long-term relationship for about three years now. Mine is a special fraternity, where the gay guys can be themselves, surrounded by a true group of friends.
     
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    I was open in my fraternity, and every member respected me just like any body else. That's what a fraternity is for, after all. But every single house is different.
     
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    Well, I'm quite sure that there are frat boys having sex with each other and no one else in the frat knows. Hell, there are all kinds of guys on LPSG who claim there's never an erection, let alone a handjob or a blowjob, in their gym's locker room, and we know that's not true!
     
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