Frequency and quality of sex

[lexus3001]

Bi curious attached guy here. On average how often do you have sex with someone? Also are your encounters usually hot and satisfying or meh?
Judging by the homemade porn out there, it seems that sex is frequent and very hot in the gay community.

 

[hvdude]

The grass is always greener, I suppose. If you don't judge straight sex by porn, don't do so with gay porn either. Frequency and "hotness" vary from person to person and encounter to encounter.

 

[Exbiker]

For me it’s roughly every 10-15 days.

Which is not enough.

But it’s very hot.

Very.

 

[OKCLane]

I'm in a gay marriage and it's three times a week on average. Sometimes it's more, and sometimes less. I would say that 95% of the time it's fucking awesome. There are inevitably those times that are less satisfying for one reason or another. I include those times when one of us doesn't orgasm.

 

[Brodie888]

When I was single, I had sex as much as I wanted. Which was about every 2-3 days. You build up a list of guys from the dating apps, facebook, people you meet at parties, friends etc.

Whenever you want to have sex, you just work your way through the list. Being guys, at least one of them will be ready when you are. Obviously you only provide return business to the guys that are hot.

Everyone knows the score. There's no expectations other than a good time.

Sex isn't always hot. It can be clumsy, messy, boring, anxious, disappointing just like straight sex can be. There are multiple takes required to get a good video. So using even home made porn as an example is not reliable of what to expect.

 

[Samantha Hopkins]

I am in a long term relationship with another guy, we are still 3 to 5 times a week. It can be everything from mind blowing to one of just needs to get off quickie. Sometimes we have a few misses where nothing clicks. Then boom its incredible again.

 

[deleted1074483]

at the moment, given I'm still in that honeymoon stage, pretty much every night and every morning - great cardio workout, at the moment even the morning quickies are great

 

[malakos]

When I was in a relationship it was at least a few times per week. Now that I'm not it's more like a few times per year.

 

[linniejr]

Bi curious attached guy here. On average how often do you have sex with someone? Also are your encounters usually hot and satisfying or meh?
Judging by the homemade porn out there, it seems that sex is frequent and very hot in the gay community.

Don't be deceived, just because you see a lot of homemade porn doesn't mean t hat sex is frequent. Some of the homemade porn that you see, may be that particular couple who just enjoys filming their sex sessions and want to share it with the rest of the world. When I was younger I tried to have an encounter at least 4 times a day and more during the entire week. But once I got older and had a few relationships, things changed. The sex was actually better with my lovers as opposed to the random hook ups, not saying the random hook up weren't good, but I guess because it was with my lover, it meant something more.

 

[951321]

Bi curious attached guy here. On average how often do you have sex with someone? Also are your encounters usually hot and satisfying or meh?
Judging by the homemade porn out there, it seems that sex is frequent and very hot in the gay community.

Frequency.... once whenever I can be bothered lol. Like maybe once or twice a week.
I have my regulars who I fuck with and genuinely in my 29 years have had less than 10 different sexual partners. I feel more satisfied having the same person who I can meet up with from time to time and also the sex gets better and better as we start trying new things together etc.

I have had one off encounters before that have been 'meh' and had regulars that started off as 'meh' but are now 'omfg yes!!' lol