Friday night...

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by Livicock, Oct 3, 2010.

  1. Livicock

    Livicock New Member

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    Hi.
    I have a girlfriend, for over 8 months now, was out on friday night with my uni class friends and got rather drunk.
    Was a great night then realised my friend was kinda flirting with me. He's a guy.
    So I suggested we leave and he jumped at the chance. Taxi to mine but he chose to get out (later to call another taxi home to his) But we sat for 10 minutes on the kerb outside my house and were chatting. I was winding himup saying he should have kissed one of the guys in our class but he said no. Then I said he should kiss me... his reply: "You have a girlfriend" Hmm?
    I dont know what came over me but felt something in that moment so managed to kiss him a little until the taxi showed up.
    After he got homoe we started texting... He admitted he was confused with his sexuality and that he had never thought of me in that way... I admitted the same. And that I didnt want to hurt my girlfriend but am curious about guys...
    What should I do? Talk to him about it? How to approach it?
    What do you think?
     
  2. D_4ew6trfiuy

    D_4ew6trfiuy New Member

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    go for it`, maybe nothing there, and maybe there is, but u will never know,talk it over and see what happens
     
  3. irox19

    irox19 New Member

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    I say go for it. For me it's all about connection.
     
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    Talk to your girlfriend, and explain that you are having these thoughts. Give her the chance to decide whether she's ok with it or not. Then when that's all cleared up, I say go for it. There's nothing wrong with a little experimenting :smile:
     
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    I agree completely. Very well said. :biggthumpup2:
     
  6. Finker

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    I'm sorry, but are you asking if it's okay to cheat ?

    Must really suck for your girlfriend.
     
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