Friend asked me to jerk off with him

[chrisrobin]

My advice: have a drink/smoke to take the edge off and feel less awkward, then if you're both still up for it - go for it.

take the edge off, or just edge. horny and then you'll shoot a wad...

 

[chrisrobin]

Im a straight male and my friend ask me if I wanted to jerk off with him. I've never jerked off with a friend before and I'm sure sure how I feel about it. Anyone have a similar experience? I kind of want to but would be super nervous.

surely you've jacked of with other guys, I was always doing it at school and college, no prob, just a way of spilling the seed. My half bro asked me if he could join in when he caught me wanking, so we frequently jacked off together, always good to se how another cok behaves and if the other guy has little "tricks". So go for it, if you get a boner on the way then you're up for it!

 

[Heat]

It sounds like you're more insecure about what others might think than what you may think and feel. You seem titillated by the thought, so go for it. Only you and he will know, so the rest of us don't count.

 

[UKnowULikeIt]

I thought that Florida was one of the states that counted Pornographic magazines in the prison system as contraband, It can not be mailed or delivered in person.

Not in the 90's. I had subscriptions to about 10 or so and I would rent them out for store items.

 

[milbud29]

Lots of good comments here and I agree with most - advice in this situation is truly about your comfort level. If you need reassurance that this can be a great experience, then I can give that - my best friend in college (who I had seen casually naked since we shared a room and then house over a couple years) and I ended up jack off buddies and yeah, it was a bit nerve-wracking the first time we allowed ourselves to get hard in front of each other, but I think it helped that we were already very close and had a level of trust. The experience absolutely bonded us in a way I have never bonded with other men and so overall it was very positive for both of us. We kept it to just jacking ourselves, but side by side to porn and ended up having quite a few repeat sessions over our college and post-grad years. Just the openness of doing something that intimate together made it fun and exciting, but it was cool to compare jo techniques and differences in our erections as well - and I don't think that's something too many men get the opportunity to do but can be curious about, so I'm grateful for that experience. Although we're both married and in different parts of the country now, we still keep in touch and are great friends. Anyway, so yeah, i hear ya on being a bit nervous at first, but it can definitely be a positive experience and not weird at all afterwards. Good luck with the decision!

 

[933295]

I think it's a good way to bond with other guys who you trust. Although I have lost friends doing this in the past. When two guys bond and start having some deeper feelings for each other, it can be confusing, especially for guys who are straight. Also some guys become more dependent on their buddy which creates some vulnerability. I happen to like those feelings and value them.

 

[1040232]

Go for it man. I'm in the camp where I think jerking off together can make a friendship tighter. Just remember that you make up your own rules as you go. Unfortunately I haven't had a friend turned jerk buddy in a very long time. I have however put ads up on craigslist for jerk buddies. For the most part it has been an awesome experience with guys of varying experience and most have understood I'm only in it for the stroke, maybe mutual stroke. Some have come to expect more and I've had to straight up excuse myself from the situation when they wouldn't let off. If he's your friend, I think he's likely to respect your wishes to take it little by little in the moment. No one wants to feel awkward in such a vulnerable position. I wish more guys were into it the bonding of it.

Good luck and let us know the details!

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[1040232]

I think it's fun to jerk with a buddy and watch each other cum. I relate to being "bisexual", so helping each other is fun as well. I'm cool with just watching as well, that would be you guys choice. Go for it!

I am straight signle guy and I'm nice and I would love to have a buddy help me out with this jerk off with a guy friend makes it better closer buddy friends make bonding.. I wish I could have a good friend of mine for I know for 14 years and jerk off buddy now for years since 13

 

[1040232]

Go for it man. I'm in the camp where I think jerking off together can make a friendship tighter. Just remember that you make up your own rules as you go. Unfortunately I haven't had a friend turned jerk buddy in a very long time. I have however put ads up on craigslist for jerk buddies. For the most part it has been an awesome experience with guys of varying experience and most have understood I'm only in it for the stroke, maybe mutual stroke. Some have come to expect more and I've had to straight up excuse myself from the situation when they wouldn't let off. If he's your friend, I think he's likely to respect your wishes to take it little by little in the moment. No one wants to feel awkward in such a vulnerable position. I wish more guys were into it the bonding of it.

Good luck and let us know the details!

I think it's a good way to bond with other guys who you trust. Although I have lost friends doing this in the past. When two guys bond and start having some deeper feelings for each other, it can be confusing, especially for guys who are straight. Also some guys become more dependent on their buddy which creates some vulnerability. I happen to like those feelings and value them.

I need to find me a good friend I can trust and do this with and bee great close friends

 

[chesschess]

Why do these guys post and then never come back to tell what they decided/how it went???

 

[kelvinza]

Why do these guys post and then never come back to tell what they decided/how it went???

Exactly

 

[mmmniple]

If you are curious to learn more about your friend (and since he did ask), have a discussion with him to learn how he knows doing this with each other would make for a tighter friendship.
It has been my experience that J/O with another guy does not (necessarily) imply anything gay and it can be a serious bonding event. I have been part of numerous such events with one or several guys and they were not gay. JO together offers to provide a level of trust and confidence between the participants since the act (for most) is very intimate.

There is also the fact that guys are greatly stimulated through visual imagery. Just jacking to porn is a fun thing, but it can be greatly amplified if there is another actual hard dick sitting next to you getting taken care of. One guy’s emotions excite the others.

On the other hand some guys might feel embarrassed or revolted should another guy be excited by their behavior. Apparently the other guy is ready to give it a try. But you are the only one who knows how you feel, and that should be your queue for saying yes or no.

Great answer.I think the same

 

[chrisrobin]

If you are curious to learn more about your friend (and since he did ask), have a discussion with him to learn how he knows doing this with each other would make for a tighter friendship.
It has been my experience that J/O with another guy does not (necessarily) imply anything gay and it can be a serious bonding event. I have been part of numerous such events with one or several guys and they were not gay. JO together offers to provide a level of trust and confidence between the participants since the act (for most) is very intimate.

There is also the fact that guys are greatly stimulated through visual imagery. Just jacking to porn is a fun thing, but it can be greatly amplified if there is another actual hard dick sitting next to you getting taken care of. One guy’s emotions excite the others.

On the other hand some guys might feel embarrassed or revolted should another guy be excited by their behavior. Apparently the other guy is ready to give it a try. But you are the only one who knows how you feel, and that should be your queue for saying yes or no.

We used to jack off at school, a group after games would be hot and sweaty (and probably horny) and have a guy jack of session, pretty hot stuff watching your mates rub and toss their hard cocks and then let fly with creamy spunk, mainly a group with trousers below our knees and the results of our labours in the grass. As for being a "shirt lifter" because of this I have no idea, I doubt once the testosterone from all the running around getting hot we'd have gone off as a group en mass to have a wank session. Also sort of educational watching other guys jack off, techniques etc, plus how much hair, how big their balls and cock and cut or uncut - not to mention who shot spunk first and furthest.
So, JO with buddies didn't mean they were a bunch of gay guys on the make,just a group of guys who liked each other enough to share intimate moment's.

 

[Notaes]

Im a straight male and my friend ask me if I wanted to jerk off with him. I've never jerked off with a friend before and I'm sure sure how I feel about it. Anyone have a similar experience? I kind of want to but would be super nervous.

I would take the plunge and jack off with him. I hear its a bonding moment!

 

[Notaes]

I would take the plunge and jack off with him. I hear its a bonding moment!

I would be nervous too but when your cock get hard it will take over.

 

[Notaes]

I would take the plunge and jack off with him. I hear its a bonding moment!

I would be nervous too but when your cock get hard it will take over.

I'm of two minds about this...the horny, cockcentric 'me' is wondering if you've felt sexually aroused and gotten hard from having been asked to showoff your cock for another dude and visa versa...??

The more level-headed gentleman 'me' is just fkn smiling, especially after reading NIMBUS post above...in fact, he'a spot-on. I suggest reflecting on your own needs (motivations, intentions, etc) before revisiting the invitation. Prioritize the 'friendship' in proactively, with actions, not just words and clarify expectations concerning privacy.

Really, your mate's taken a huge risk so just be mindful not to leave him 'hangin', so to speak, by 'pretending' he hadn't asked, etc...and always reserve the right to change your mind ,tho, hope like hell u give it a go

I think just pulling out your cock for another guy to see would be hot. I am proud of my cock and most of us men who are honest will say that we love our cocks because it brings us so much pleasure.

 

[Jackson12345]

Hey guys, sorry for long delay in commenting. I decided to just relax on the issue and not make it too big of a deal. Me and my friend were hanging out one evening having a few beers. My friend started talking about porn so I went with with. We both talked about what we liked and we got super horny. He mentioned jerking off together so I said sure. We brought up some porn on our phones and sat next to each other on the couch so we could see each others porn. We slid our pants off and started jerkin our cocks while watching porn. No big deal. We had fun commenting on the porn and making jokes. When we got close to cumming it was pretty intense to share that with a good buddy. Definitely a bonding moment and it's cool to have someone to share more personal stuff with. We've done it twice since and it's awesome. No awkwardness at all. Pretty stoked to have a friend so close.

 

[bigguy7]

Hey guys, sorry for long delay in commenting. I decided to just relax on the issue and not make it too big of a deal. Me and my friend were hanging out one evening having a few beers. My friend started talking about porn so I went with with. We both talked about what we liked and we got super horny. He mentioned jerking off together so I said sure. We brought up some porn on our phones and sat next to each other on the couch so we could see each others porn. We slid our pants off and started jerkin our cocks while watching porn. No big deal. We had fun commenting on the porn and making jokes. When we got close to cumming it was pretty intense to share that with a good buddy. Definitely a bonding moment and it's cool to have someone to share more personal stuff with. We've done it twice since and it's awesome. No awkwardness at all. Pretty stoked to have a friend so close.

Cheers for that mate...seriously BONED, and now TOTALLY charged...total, RAW MASCULINITY at its core.

 

[chrisrobin]

Hey guys, sorry for long delay in commenting. I decided to just relax on the issue and not make it too big of a deal. Me and my friend were hanging out one evening having a few beers. My friend started talking about porn so I went with with. We both talked about what we liked and we got super horny. He mentioned jerking off together so I said sure. We brought up some porn on our phones and sat next to each other on the couch so we could see each others porn. We slid our pants off and started jerkin our cocks while watching porn. No big deal. We had fun commenting on the porn and making jokes. When we got close to cumming it was pretty intense to share that with a good buddy. Definitely a bonding moment and it's cool to have someone to share more personal stuff with. We've done it twice since and it's awesome. No awkwardness at all. Pretty stoked to have a friend so close.

OMG, the 231 century really does have a lot to answer for, watching porn to wank, watching on a phone.... what's wrong with admiring your mates cock, his balls and action, great bush and his sensual panting, cock lubing with pre cum and then the cum shot - with that close by why watch porn?

 

[boxersboy75]

I saw my long time friend in briefs the other day, biggest soft bulge I've ever seen. I'd be lying if said this thought hasn't already crossed my mind; but no idea how to approach and REALLY don't wanna risk a friendship from it. But still...damn he's packing.