Friend Effect?

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  1. long_man655

    long_man655 New Member

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    Has anyone else experienced the "friend effect" I feel like whenever a meet a girl from a new social group within a few weeks half of her friends have made passes at me (sometimes successful). Even worse her "best friend" often tries to sleep with me on the sly. Has anyone else experienced this? Sometimes it is great fun other times it can be very awkard.

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    As a female, I haven;t experienced this 'effect'. That may be due to dearth of applicable men, but even when friends did mention it, I can;t think that we did anything other than express lust, admiration or curiosity. Maybe they did it on the QT and left me out. Oh well.
     
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    Unfortunately there are individuals who have highly competitive natures which may supercede any female alliances. I am sure you are probably a highly attractive male and your female companions may have been less than discreet in bragging about you or your endowments. THey say that forbidden fruit is sweeter. I wouldnt know.... LOL!











     
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    After viewing your pix and porntube video clip, it's obvious why you are the beneficiary of this kind of attention! You can be sure this almost never happens to men who aren't exceptionally hung. I wish there could be a research project to accurately measure the correlation between cock size and how often this happens!
     
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    For them flirting is good. :05: But secret sex with the other girl's beau is better.

    As naughty said, they yearn to taste the forbidden fruit.
     
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    Never happened. I hear this happening to other guys and wonder why my exes haven't been more into the spirit of sharing... but oh well.
     
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    once one of them knows your hung.. the rest will come sniffin'..
     
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    Interesting I kinda thought this happened to any guy that was good in bed. (But maybe I am unusual)


     
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    I've had that happen a few times. Due in part to a girlfriend bragging about my size or....good in bed. I don't cheat. So I find/found it rather sleazy of the women that tried to pickup on me....specially if they are/were friends of my girlfriend.
     
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    Yes had this happen a couple of times. The fact that I don't believe in cheating, I never allowed it to happen. Would not want the woman to do that to me. Do unto others. But it was very tempting. :smile:
     
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    It might sound weird, but after i started dating my present girlfriend, many of my female friends seemed to have realized i am a guy and made passes to me (all unsuccesfully).

    It seemed like they thought "If she dates him there must be something in him i have missed so far".
     
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    Having just viewed your gallery I'm not surprised. Criminy, if I were your girlfriend I might just brag a bit also. :wink:

    Or maybe she hasn't said anything?
    Maybe it's the limp the morning after that gives you away.

    I'm sure you are experienced and gentlemanly enough to not use your cock as a battering ram. However I know

    it is possible during a moment of intense passion to not be thinking about anything but the pleasure down below.

    Personally, I never say anything to my girlfriends about my mans size. Whether it's big, small, or medium. I may mention if he teaches me a new position that I enjoy, other than that I only mention that he pleases me.

    After a break up I NEVER bad mouth a mans performance or cock size. That's just mean & juvenile. More importantly it does nothing to benefit me.

    Why don't I brag about my guys cock? Maybe because I am a taurus, an only child and I don't like to share!
     
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    I have this with my present gf, her friends and collegues at work are interested to see the big thing, and the funny thing is they have all said it to my gf.... But i never slept with her friends....
     
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    I just tell them that I don't mess around with anyone who is even remotely close to someone dear to my heart. It could mess things up and I don't want that to happen. I stick to my guns too.
     
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    You just say "meet a girl" how far does it have to go before the friends start coming on to you?
    I say make the most of it, what if the best friend turns out to be a better match for you?
     
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    there are so many times in my past relationships that i've had this problem. i've seen women completely mistreat their so called friends... and as much as the attention strokes the male ego... its actually really sad to see a 'friend' do this to another 'friend'. there is a kind of unwritten code with my guy friends that you don't do this no matter how hot or sexy your buddies g/f is. but for some reason the women i've dated have told their 'friends' about my size without really knowing them. i actually lost a g/f because one of her friends came on to me right in front of her. lesson to the women on the boards... be careful who and what you tell your 'friends'. i told my current g/f very early on to be careful with the info... not that i care who she tells... but just from my experiences.
     
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    Dude, it's called referral sex.... lol. It happens to guys who are exceptional in pleasing a woman. And it happens to guys who have extraordinary tools. Having a big dick brings them in. Knowing how to use it keeps them coming back. I cannot count the number of times this has happened to me. I was once felt up under the table by the girlfriend of a woman I was having relations with. She had excused herself and gone to the ladies room. Depending on you and your personality, it can be a great thing (me) or I can see how it would be troubling if you are in a devoted relationship (not me). When you get to be my age, and you are not looking for long term serious relationships, it is a wonderful thing. Saves a lot of energy chasing them down... lol.
     
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