Friend in amateur clip - would you watch?

[Hatt_101]

hand job videos still contain women so its not the same thing. and im sorry didnt meant to mistake your percentage. i like a good HJ video like this one with siri or this one with Amber Rayne its not about the guy it about putting yourself in that situation with her.

youre just being facetious with that description if you can find a hand job video like the one you described (in blue) post it.

i do not have a black and white view at all you are the one that seem to have one of this situation im just thinking logically from the stand point of a straight man and saying its its very unlikely. And just because it is unlikely doesnt mean that it may not happen.

1%, and that's not where it comes from.

I'm not attracted to other men (typically the opposite). I'm only attracted to women.

But I leave open the possibility that maybe at some point in the future I might find a guy attractive. I doubt it would happen, but I couldn't say it with certainty (since I don't know the future), so that's the 1%.

But you have such a black and white view of all this. What about something like handjob videos. If there's a guy being jacked off by a woman and the focus of the camera is on the guy's cock, what % of the woman needs to be visible for that to be "straight".

If all of her is visible and she's naked is it straight? What if she's fully visible, but she's clothed? What if only her hand is visible (but you can tell it's a woman's hand). What if only her hand is visible and it's kind of hard to tell if it's a woman's hand or not?

With this black/white view of what straight guys would willingly click that you have, at what point does that handjob video switch from being a straight video to being a gay video?

 

[MisterVIP]

Why be such a fucking asshole? If you recall, the name of this forum is 'ask a straight man'. If you're so threatened by these type of questions, don't read them.

I don't suppose you recall the forum rules regarding personal attacks?

It's not a threatened response, but an appropriate one considering all the stupid "what would make a straight guy do gay stuff" questions.

The question was asked and I fucking answered it. Don't like the answer? Don't read it.

 

[Brisler]

hand job videos still contain women so its not the same thing. and im sorry didnt meant to mistake your percentage. i like a good HJ video like this one with siri or this one with Amber Rayne its not about the guy it about putting yourself in that situation with her.

youre just being facetious with that description if you can find a hand job video like the one you described (in blue) post it.

i do not have a black and white view at all you are the one that seem to have one of this situation im just thinking logically from the stand point of a straight man and saying its its very unlikely. And just because it is unlikely doesnt mean that it may not happen.

Here's the thing:

If I put my lazy ass in front of the laptop to watch pornography, it's highly unlikely that I'll click on a video of a man jerking off. It isn't something that turns me on at all. I just don't venture into those parts of the internet (excluding thumbnails), as I have no reason to. So it's extremely rare for me to watch such a clip. I think this goes for many straight men.

But that does in no way mean that it's unlikely that a straight man has ever watched one. I've watched more than a handful, even if only for a couple of seconds. Man, have you never checked out chatroulette with some friends when it first became a thing, only to realize that it's filled with men who're masturbating? Have you never had female friends demonstrate how pathetically willing men are to pull out their dicks and start masturbating on cam? Add to that all the ridiculous "viral" j/o videos that I've watched for one reason or another.

 

[jaap_stam]

Obessively logical semantics doesn't really apply to human behavior, guys.

I get your point that "straight" men frequently aren't as black and white straight, and the straight responses at the beginning aren't necessarily representative of all straight men.

On the other hand, if a man truly does not have sexual interest in other men, it's pretty easy to avoid watching solo men jerking off. It's just foolish to suggest that a straight guy with no sexual interest in men would somehow see the thumbnail which plays frame-by-frame previews when you mouse-over the thumbnail, would see that the video is mistitled or mistagged, see the frames of the guy jerking off, and still click the video. Mathematical or probabilitistic semantics just don't apply here. If I'm not into men jerking off, it will be very easy for me to avoid it on the pornhubs or xhamsters of the world.

Now that that is out of the way - to the OP. If you mean friend as in acquaintance, and not necessariy actual friend, and in fact this acquaintance was an enemy (and not a known porn star), I would save the video as blackmail material.

 

[Hatt_101]

Obessively logical semantics doesn't really apply to human behavior, guys.

I get your point that "straight" men frequently aren't as black and white straight, and the straight responses at the beginning aren't necessarily representative of all straight men.

On the other hand, if a man truly does not have sexual interest in other men, it's pretty easy to avoid watching solo men jerking off. It's just foolish to suggest that a straight guy with no sexual interest in men would somehow see the thumbnail which plays frame-by-frame previews when you mouse-over the thumbnail, would see that the video is mistitled or mistagged, see the frames of the guy jerking off, and still click the video. Mathematical or probabilitistic semantics just don't apply here. If I'm not into men jerking off, it will be very easy for me to avoid it on the pornhubs or xhamsters of the world.

Thank you this is exactly what I was saying.

 

[Hatt_101]

What you said here is exactly what I've been saying and with this happening it does mean that it is unlikely to happen. I've never gone on chat roulette alone or with a group of friends.

What jaap_stam said is all ive been saying.

Here's the thing:

If I put my lazy ass in front of the laptop to watch pornography, it's highly unlikely that I'll click on a video of a man jerking off. It isn't something that turns me on at all. I just don't venture into those parts of the internet (excluding thumbnails), as I have no reason to. So it's extremely rare for me to watch such a clip. I think this goes for many straight men.

But that does in no way mean that it's unlikely that a straight man has ever watched one. I've watched more than a handful, even if only for a couple of seconds. Man, have you never checked out chatroulette with some friends when it first became a thing, only to realize that it's filled with men who're masturbating? Have you never had female friends demonstrate how pathetically willing men are to pull out their dicks and start masturbating on cam? Add to that all the ridiculous "viral" j/o videos that I've watched for one reason or another.

 

[Brisler]

Please tell me that this is not SO hard to understand...

If and when I've watched footage of a guy jerking off, it's not because I don't know how to avoid it but because I've had a non sexual interest in the content.

Gosh darn it...

 

[Hatt_101]

thats fine no one is disputing your non sexual interest. but as you, jaap_stem, others and I have all said. straight men generally do not have an interest in that so it stands to reason that it is unlikely to happen

So it's extremely rare for me to watch such a clip. I think this goes for many straight men.

theres nothing saying there cant be a non sexual interest in it, it is just unlikely to happen. unlikely does not mean not possible it just means the chances of it happening are low.

 

[Brisler]

Let me get this straight (pun blah blah): are you saying that a straight man is unlikely to ever (as in not even once in his life) watch footage of another man jerking off?

 

[Hatt_101]

yes unlikely doesnt mean it cant happen. And depending on the porn you watch since straight men like women stands to reason that a video they search will have women in it, the chances are low that they will come arcoss a solo male video with no women in it. If they have some fascination out side of sexual gratification to watch such a clip then fine but how many people do you think that would apply to?

Let me get this straight (pun blah blah): are you saying that a straight man is unlikely to ever (as in not even once in his life) watch footage of another man jerking off?

 

[Brisler]

I think a very large portion of straight men in the internet age has watched a guy jerk off for some meaningless reason and in some meaningless context. I know for a fact that most of my straight friends have checked out chatroulette back in the day, which means that they've watched a bunch of guys jerk off.

I am absolutely sure that you're wrong, but you and I live in very different worlds, and frankly, Mr. Shankly, I'm not envious of yours.

 

[TexanStar]

thats fine no one is disputing your non sexual interest. but as you, jaap_stem, others and I have all said. straight men generally do not have an interest in that so it stands to reason that it is unlikely to happen theres nothing saying there cant be a non sexual interest in it, it is just unlikely to happen. unlikely does not mean not possible it just means the chances of it happening are low.

If you led with a statement that it was unlikely, we probably wouldn't be having this side-discussion.

But you didn't say it was unlikely to happen, you said it doesn't happen. It's not really splitting hairs to point out that those are different statements.

 

[Hatt_101]

aside from my first post literally every post i have said unlikely how did you miss that i underlined it several times. Unlikely is all ive been saying

If you led with a statement that it was unlikely, we probably wouldn't be having this side-discussion.

But you didn't say it was unlikely to happen, you said it doesn't happen. It's not really splitting hairs to point out that those are different statements.

why would i want you to be envious of me? my friends and i live different lives then yours you shouldnt expect everyone to have the same experiences

I think a very large portion of straight men in the internet age has watched a guy jerk off for some meaningless reason and in some meaningless context. I know for a fact that most of my straight friends have checked out chatroulette back in the day, which means that they've watched a bunch of guys jerk off.

I am absolutely sure that you're wrong, but you and I live in very different worlds, and frankly, Mr. Shankly, I'm not envious of yours.

 

[jaap_stam]

I think a very large portion of straight men in the internet age has watched a guy jerk off for some meaningless reason and in some meaningless context. I know for a fact that most of my straight friends have checked out chatroulette back in the day, which means that they've watched a bunch of guys jerk off.

I am absolutely sure that you're wrong, but you and I live in very different worlds, and frankly, Mr. Shankly, I'm not envious of yours.

Ha, the very reason I never wandered onto that dark part of the internet is because so many friends have told me the vast majority of what they see on Chatroulette is in fact men jerking off. If I go onto Chatroulette knowing that it's mostly men wanking, and I still go on there (out of non-sexual interest), then I perhaps have to question what it is I'm doing with my life...

 

[Brisler]

If you led with a statement that it was unlikely, we probably wouldn't be having this side-discussion.

But you didn't say it was unlikely to happen, you said it doesn't happen. It's not really splitting hairs to point out that those are different statements.

I'm pedantic, so I can't say for certain that I wouldn't have take up this discussion, as I'm sure that a straight guy having watched a solo video is not unlikely at all.

 

[Brisler]

why would i want you to be envious of me? my friends and i live different lives then yours you shouldnt expect everyone to have the same experiences

Are you deliberately trying to misunderstand everything I say?

 

[Hatt_101]

Are you deliberately trying to misunderstand everything I say?

No I'm just saying it's not like I expected you to be envious. I know people are different.

 

[Brisler]

Ha, the very reason I never wandered onto that dark part of the internet is because so many friends have told me the vast majority of what they see on Chatroulette is in fact men jerking off. If I go onto Chatroulette knowing that it's mostly men wanking, and I still go on there (out of non-sexual interest), then I perhaps have to question what it is I'm doing with my life...

For fuck's sake...

I don't log on to chatroulette. I wouldn't even if it was filled with masturbating women. But I did check it out when it was launched and made the news and people were talking. Of course I did, I was way too curious not to. I logged on, saw a bunch of dicks and logged off. Never used the service again. I guess that makes me a highly unlikely straight guy, like your friends.

 

[Brisler]

No I'm just saying it's not like I expected you to be envious. I know people are different.

Okay, I never implied anything of the sort.

 

[Hatt_101]

Okay, I never implied anything of the sort.

Alright then. But then there was no point in you saying that you were not envious.