Friend Jack off

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  1. dpc

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    Hey im 18, and i have a friend who is 18 as well. He is pretty hot and i know hes well endowed. We talk about our dicks and stuff and he has shown me a picture before. I asked him if who he would jack off with and he said me and another friend. Im bi but no one knows, so how do i get this guy to jack off with me without making it seem like im gay or bi. Does it also seem like he might be bi as well?
     
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    Well, he's already said he'd enjoy jacking off with you, so he's turned on by exposing himself in front of others at the very least. If he sent you a photo I'd say there's a definite possibility that he's bi, but he might just get turned on by putting it out there.

    You asked him who he'd jack off with, really? How did that even come about? Well if that's the case, sounds like all you need to do is watch some porn together or something like that. If it happens, just try to read the signs at first. Or you know, you could always just be blunt and ask if he'd ever be willing to swap helping hands as you guys are jerkin—I mean, sounds like you're pretty forward with the guy.
     
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    Yeah what art said, plus report back with the results :)
     
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    yea and pictures too lol
     
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    It is very common for teen-age boys to masturbate together. They do not see it as anything "queer", but merely a time of getting-ready for the time they will fuck women. They will even identify specific women they would like to fuck and talk about how they will fuck her as they get off!
     
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    One of u needs to plan a sleepover - or go on vacation together and stay in the same room. Just the two of u. It will happen and no one needs to know about it.
     
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    If he's your friend why not ask him what you asked us? "Do you remember when we were talking about what friends we'd jack off with? Do you think that's gay?" See what he says.

    And anyway, why bother trying to hide how gay/bi it is? If all you want to do is jack off with a friend, just ask him. Next time you're talking about dicks: "Hey man, I need to get off, but I'm tired of doing it alone. No pressure, but I remember saying you'd do it before, so if you're interested I am."

    On the other hand, if you think you have romantic feelings for him, well that's different. You may want to be more cautious.
     
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    I don't know that it's "Common" for teenage boys to jack together. Most of the guys I grewup would never have done that. Of course, it DOES happen, but as for common...?
     
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    Don't ask him if he thinks it's gay. Just tell him you're horny and you just gotta beat off. If he doesn't go for it, go into the bathroom or wherever and beat off alone. Keep this up and he might come around to your idea.
     
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    Damn all the shit talk & pondering dpc, just grab his dik after a smile and into it
    He can only pretend to be shocked, but as he has already intimated the desire i feel sure he would be into it as much as you want
    Suggest you quit any thought about, ' without making it seem like im gay or bi. ' sure as hell he aint going to think that if he is already thinking along the lines of Jo,ing with either you or a friend.
    INTO it, no regrets either party.,... his Bi-ness will eventually show if it has not already.
    enz

    sees he who is annoyed but more likely envious & jealous hahah
     
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    I agree with the other posters. I would not over-analyse or worry about what if's and all that. I'm an older guy now and when I was your age I was too worried that someone would think or lable as gay or weird if I thought about my friends that way.

    I've learned over the years that most guys are pretty curious and curious about their friends. I bet if he's shown the least bit of interest in you (like you mentioned) that he actually would jack-off with you!

    Just arrange a sleep-over or go on vacation together or something. Watch some porn or go to the gym and shower together. I've had lots of friends over the years who WOULD have experimented with me if I had only given them some inclination or a start. If you are alone, go ahead and strip down to your underwear or something and play box or wrestle...
     
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    No label needs to be put on it. He already said he would jack off with you.

    Like the others have said, have a sleep over, go away for the weekend & see what happens. No one needs to know.
     
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    Invite him over to hang out and watch a couple movies. Make sure some porn is part of the selection he gets to choose from. Let him pic and put the DVD in and sit in your respective corners. Enjoy the show. It's just jacking with a buddy. No need to rent a hotel room unless your place isn't private enough. Kudos for being direct enough to ask him directly.
     
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