Friend of mine is worried

Discussion in 'Sex With a Large Penis' started by majormadness, Dec 17, 2007.

  1. majormadness

    majormadness New Member

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    Hey everyone. I've recieved nothing but good advice from this forum, so I figured I'd post another one of my concerns for you folks to look over and hopefully help with.
    I have a friend that I'm planning to have sex with tomorrow. We've fooled around a lot, going way back to high school. It all started when she asked what I wanted for my birthday and I replied "how about sex?", only joking, really. I was really suprised when she said "well, what if I say yes?"
    Anyways, a week later, I went over when her parents weren't there and we fooled around. However, once she caught sight of my dick, she became apprehensive. I did get one of those reactions that big guys love (she actually gasped :smile:), but it was followed soon by her claiming that I was too big for her. Now, I'm not outstanding by the standards of this forum, but I do believe I'm well above-average endowed (about 8x6). We ended up doing virtually everything but sex, though she promised that soon I would get to go all the way with her. Since then we've messed around more, and each time she seems suprised at how big I am and gives me a rain check on sex. (to be fair, we did try penetration once, and I barely got the head in before she started telling me it hurt too much)
    Besides myself being much larger than average, she's also quite small, only 4' 10". I think it's the combination of the two that is making penetration so hard and scary for her. Does anyone have any advice for helping smaller girls take bigger dicks? Any advice is appreciated!
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    Coming from me this is a bit odd but from all the knowledge I've gleaned from this site the key is lots of foreplay and don't be afraid to bring lube.

    Be careful when fingering her. The vagina shrinks-to-fit whatever is put in it and if you keep your finger in then it will shrink to fit your finger. I do recall a certain video from a certain someone here demonstrating her vaginal control on a Bic pen! You don't want to introduce a finger or two only to have the vagina close down on it and then try to get your cock in!

    Either avoid inserting your fingers and just work on her labia or clit before insertion or use a lot of fingers; enough to approximate the girth of your shaft.

    Petite women do not necessarily have vaginas to match! Like dicks, the vagina may not match the woman. Take it sloooow, make her very wet before, lube your shaft, and let her try taking it cowgirl first so she's in control. That should make her more relaxed. SHE has to be relaxed for her vagina to be relaxed.
     
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    good advice! so you're saying "vagina's suck?":)
     
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    Must see pics of your 8x6

    alsohavepatience
     
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    That reminds me of how much it used to hurt me when I first got with my consort-sex partner(we are more than fuck buddies but not in a relationship).He is about your size and I think he went down on me and fingered me first. I used a ton of lube know matter how wet I was.
    Don't make her come with your fingers and you should be ok.You start with one, of course,add more lube before inserting two then repeat process but don't let her come. I think you are going to have to tease her pussy with you cock by just rubbing it against her lips and just a teeny bit in the slit and then she could slide you in. Maybe you can use just a teeny bit of numbing cream?
    I know this works well with anal but maybe if you mixed just an extremely small amount of numb cream with lube it could work. I will try it with my 9+ friend who hurts me with his girth even though my consort is your size.
    Don't expect much to go in very far that could take a year or longer to get to that and I am tall and have had three children and it took along time to accommodate my consort without getting injured.
    I have heard that shorter women may not be as deep. Also be careful with her I have hurt my bladder and irritated my urinary tract from my consort many times and it was so painful. I broke up with him. Too bad i didn't know about this forum.
    I think I am going to start a thread and ask. I am very curious now to see if there are petite size hounds that can take a lot of length.
    Good luck with and have fun.
     
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    well at the risk of sounding dirty, is she "tight"?
     
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    Try "sex" with a dildo/viberator before actually asking for your chance. Make sure it's about as long as you are and use lots of lube...
     
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    Thanks for the advice everyone. jason, I had no idea that fingering could actually shrink the vagina! I'm glad I have that information now.
    Also, sugarandspice, your advice was very helpful. If anyone else has more information, I can use anything I can get!

    Don't worry about it. She's pretty tight, having only had sex with one guy before. She phrased it, "he was like half your size," so I'm worried that her only contact before has been with a below-average dick.
    Also, I think her vagina may be too short to accomodate me. I've fingered her quite deeply before and I think I might have felt her cervix. Does anyone have ideas about how to either slowly lengthen the vagina or perhaps break into the womb? Is breaking into the womb even possible?
    Again, I'll appreciate any info I can get!
     
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    ZOS23xy is absoutely right. try with other things first. and just go really easy on her. let her tell you when to go further in and when not to.
     
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