Friend showing dirty pictures of you?

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Have any of you had friends show other friends - gay, bi, or straight - intimate pictures of you without your consent?

If so, how did you feel about it - offended, powerful, indifferent, etc?
 

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Indifferent. I look good.

Edit; i might add that there is not a picture of me in the world of me performing a sexual act or of my vagina. I only put out pictures into the universe that i wouldn't mind the universe seeing. The pics i have in my profile are as naked or sexual as they get.
 

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I have not had a friend do it to me, but a couple of my naked pictures actually came back to me once claiming they were of them. That was an eye opener for me!
 

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if i actually took naked photos of myself, they would more than likely be for my personal use and i would not share them with anyone via the internet or SMS messaging.... i would keep them private on my personal devices and show them only on my personal devices.... if i found out that a friend had obtained said photos and then shared them without my consent, then they would no longer be my friend and i would make sure to warn all of their friends to keep their personal devices under wraps because said 'ex' friend can't be trusted around them....
 

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I wouldn't really care. I mean, I've been naked on stage for shows before in a professional theatre setting. Someone looking at my naughty bits with or without my consent really doesn't bother me. Hell, half the time I show whoever asks to see!! That said, while videoing or photographing myself having sex is a fantasy, I'd never do it, because if that got out, I'd be a little upset.
 

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My partner has shared a few of my pics with his friends and told me about it after the fact. Most of the time I'm ok with it since frankly I've seen more of their "naughty bits" at various parties than I care to rememeber. So I consider it mostly turn about is fair play. We've discussed and agreed on parameters for sharing, so I know the friends who I'd never want to see them won't.
 

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Offended. My body is just that, my body. I don't think I'd be happy with someone seeing my pics unless I consented, and I most likely wouldn't consent. I'm not a huge fan of my picture being taken for that matter, so I doubt it would ever happen...
 

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yes!
two of my friend's wives have shown vids of my dick at parties many times over,it doesn't bother me at all.
my face isn't shown,and i made the vids as proof that i wasn't stuffing my pants to strangers that would confront me...yeah i know,i had some issues.
 

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I've had friends talk about me, and one sends links to my profiles online (like here) but never passes out actual pics. He knows to behave himself and I figure if I go and posted things online, they're easy enough for someone to find if they want.
 

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No friend has ever had access to intimate photos of me. I may have shown them the photos myself, but they themselves don't have access to then show to someone else.

Telling someone else what they SAW in the intimate photo - now that's different.

Simba
 

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My husband would be far more upset than I would about photos or videos of me engaged in sex acts getting out there. My boyfriend took a series of pictures of me, and then immediately sent them to a friend of his. I was very surprised, but not disturbed at all.

Come to think of it, that friend already had takn his own pictures of me wearing only panties the day I met him. He'd shown up with a girl who stripped to her panties, and since I happened to have the exact same ones in my purse...

Anyway, I don't really care who sees me naked, but I do prefer to know who has access to images.
 

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It's happened to me, and I was furious. Not because of any body shame, mind you, but because I wasn't fucking asked and the guy damn well knew better.

Thankfully, it all got rectified. I hope...

...as long as I don't show up in the "public displays or dares" thread...
 

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Nude photos I would not care so much as there are many photos of myself that were taken at nude beaches, pool parties etc. (I'm even naked in a few coffee table books) Intimate photos or videos are another story; I would be furious.
 

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For the most part I don't care if people shows my pictures to someone. After all, they are online... even as a "private" site here.

However, the recent even is what got me a little angry. I have a very mixed crowd of friends - straight, bi, gay, and confused. I talk openly with all of them. The ones that are bi/gay generally have seen my dick either in person or in a picture. I was out with my mixed group in a club and one of my friends whips out his phone and starts showing everyone a dick shot and pointing at me.

Sure, I'm not ashamed at my body at all. However, I felt that the setting was totally improper. Not only was it in a public setting just flashing it to everyone in the group but the people passing by as well. Secondly, he didn't ask if people wanted to show it - he just did it. I think it would have been different if he asked and he didn't make it so public. It is one thing to show it without asking... but it seems totally different when it is shown without consent and forcing it on everyone within viewing distance.

With this scenario in mind, would everyone here still be OK with the picture being shown?