For the most part I don't care if people shows my pictures to someone. After all, they are online... even as a "private" site here.
However, the recent even is what got me a little angry. I have a very mixed crowd of friends - straight, bi, gay, and confused. I talk openly with all of them. The ones that are bi/gay generally have seen my dick either in person or in a picture. I was out with my mixed group in a club and one of my friends whips out his phone and starts showing everyone a dick shot and pointing at me.
Sure, I'm not ashamed at my body at all. However, I felt that the setting was totally improper. Not only was it in a public setting just flashing it to everyone in the group but the people passing by as well. Secondly, he didn't ask if people wanted to show it - he just did it. I think it would have been different if he asked and he didn't make it so public. It is one thing to show it without asking... but it seems totally different when it is shown without consent and forcing it on everyone within viewing distance.
With this scenario in mind, would everyone here still be OK with the picture being shown?