Friend showing off her pictures of her nude boyfriend

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  1. BirdinMo

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    So I have a friend and every time I go see her she trys to show me pictures of her boyfriend nude. Now do not get me wrong he is a fine man but I always tell her no because I do not think he wants everyone to see him nude. And what if it some how starts something between us? Dose anyone else have this same problem?
     
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    I don't have that problem but I commend you for not looking at them. Something weird is going on there IMHO.
     
  3. BirdinMo

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    Well we have known each other since the age of 6, So I can kind of understand her not being botherd by it but in another way I can see it getting us into a fight somehow. I do not know how but I just have a gut feeling if I looked at them even when she says to that it will end bad.
     
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    I don't see any harm in you looking at the pictures. Are you afraid you are going to lust after him after you view the photos? As I said elsewhere, if you don't act on that desire you need not worry.
     
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    If you send them to me I'll look at them.
     
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    Weird but also funny, maybe she wants a threesome
     
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    If he was hot I wold demand a copy. :biggrin1: Even if he wasn't hot the curiosity would force me to see it.
     
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    i myself see nothing wrong with you looking or her wanting to show them to you. but i guess i am more open about some things than others may be maybe. i have shown some of my female friends my past bf pics. and also my hubby's nude pics. they are fine and have fun looking and he doesn't care if i do. its a sort of look but dont touch thing whats the harm. and if all agree whats the harm in getting together for more fun if it turns into that. and if not we just look upon it as friendly fun between us women.
     
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    I think you should fuck her boyfriend and send her the pictures
     
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    How is this different from posting a pic in your gallery, except that you are not certain that the boyfriend has consented to having his pix made public?
     
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    I also agree that she may be testing the water to see how you respond, he could be bi and she knows or as pieterjoke suggested she may be after a threesome. Why dont you challenge her with that. If she says yes, then you can say it's not going to happen as you have morals and standards. or if she thinks your interested him she will stop showing you anymore pictures incase you make a move on him. Good luck
     
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    I agree. He might have brought the idea of a threesome up to her, but she wont trust some stranger or a friend of his and might try to spark your interest if you see him.
     
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    Is he so hot that after seeing the pics you are likely to be unable to control yourself. Fuck it, take a peek. Only ever had one mate show me nude pics of his other half and I can only guess that he needed a map and a machete to find the sweet spot...but just said, yeah, um, nice:redface:
     
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    If it makes you feel uncomfortable, tell her it makes you feel uncomfortable. Then, say I don't want to look. I know him and it's not making me feel okay.
     
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    I say : trust your instincts. If you have a strong feeling that this will somehow be turned back on you, just keep telling her "no thanks."
     
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    I don't know...I've sent PM's to everyone on my friends list to look at my gallery and they all refuse!
     
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    Point in proof. We all know we could not trust ourselves :redface:
     
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