friend to sleep in same bed?

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  1. henrythehanger

    henrythehanger New Member

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    This is my first post. :biggrin1: anyways. I was wondering how to ask one of my friends to sleep in the same bed as me the next time he spends the night. I have a couch in my room, so I was thinking because it's pretty cold now that I could say something about him being warmer in my bed. (I have a heating blanket) Do you guys have any suggestions on ways to go about this? Btw he has said b4 how gays are weird, but he seems to have an interest in my body. :confused:
     
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    are either of you gay or bisexual?

    I guess I would suggest just to come right out and ask it... but do it in the "Brokeback Mountain" Style
     
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    Welcome to LPSG.

    Some questions:

    1. What are you expecting or wanting to happen by him sleeping in the same bed? Do you genuinely want him to be warmer/more comfortable or are you looking for some kind of sexual experience?

    2. From reading your post it would appear so, but are you gay yourself?

    3. Does sex or sexual-related topics come up during conversation with this guy?

    4. What indicators has he given you that makes you think he is interested in your body?


    My simple answer would be to just offer it to him as a gesture stating that you think he might be more comfortable. Personally, I am fine with sharing a bed with another male (especially a friend). Some of my friends are fine with that and others aren't. I just leave it up to them. If "something" happens, I guess it's just a little added bonus for me.:wink:
     
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    1. All I would like to happen is for us to jack off together.

    2. I'd say 75% gay. Him I have no idea.

    3. Not really.

    4. I'll notice him staring when I change and he'll sometimes keep touching me. (unnecessarilly)
     
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    Keep us posted as to what happens if he says yes to sharing your bed.
     
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    all right.
     
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    Ok, the bed thing is out unless you hide all the blankets, turn off the thermostat, give him the bed, then crawl in with him ten minutes later because you are "ffffreeezzzzzing" can he warm him up?

    Devious much? the oldest trick in the book is to sit on the couch next to him in baggy pj's and no underwear, pop in some porn, and "apologise" for getting such a boner, etc, etc. Just read the "hottest gay situations with a straight guy" thread. Woof!
     
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    thanks rocky. can u give me the link to that thread?
     
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    I have a couple of ideas...
    A)If you're messy at all, you could just pile a bunch of junk on the couch, and tell him you don't feel like moving all of it, and ask him to please just use the other side of your bed to save you the trouble.
    B)Remove one of the couch cushions, and say that you spilled something on it or it got torn up...that way the couch is completely out of the question and he has to use your bed.
    C)If it's cold like you say, tell him you don't have any spare blankets and tell him he'll have to share with you.
    D)Offer him the bed, you tell him you're going to sleep on the couch, let him get in bed and then climb in with him, saying you changed your mind and want the bed too.

    I hope one of these helps!
     
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    put on a late movie and tell him to watch it with you on the bed. or, throw out the couch!
     
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    Wow, what a devious bunch of guys. I'm inviting all of you to my next party. LOL
     
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    That's a great idea . . . NOT!!
    :wtf1:

     
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    I got to sleep with my first roomie, a super-straight, six foot tall, 200 lb prep school jock

    was having a dream that my bed had gotten filled with sand, so I would not be able to sleep there ... went into his room, told him there was sand in my bed, and he let me sleep in his with him ...
     
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    Came into my dorm room in college and my "straight" roommate was sitting on the windowsill, stark naked, staring out at the Charles...I have always kicked the shit out of myself for not making a move.

    As for the "making comments about gays"... some gay/bi guys do that to check out your reaction...if you freak out, they know to move on...if you're cool about it....?

    Devious, yes! All this fun and games is half the battle. I was thinking about your post, and all the guys I asked straight up if they wanted to do something...the answer was always no. the times something happened, it was by "accident". Give the guy any excuse, let him say "it just happened" to himself. Most guys get hardons 3-4 times in their sleep every night...let the games begin! (and keep us posted!)
     
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