So i may be a bit of an oddity, but i am super good friends with a couple of my ex boyfriends. And recently they have been talkin with one of our other friends that works with my roommate. They were talking to her about how big i am. Now she asks me constantly to see it. I'm not much of an exhibitionist, but what do y'all think i should do? and do you think she wants to see it hard or soft? And if she wants to see it hard what would you do to get hard, to show someone that you aren't sexually attracted to?