Okay, so I have this friend who says he is smaller. One inch limp and five erect, so he says, so he's more or less correct. He's said that he was always paranoid about and avoided showering with other guys in high school. Not a big surprise since many boys of all lengths and girths may be uncomfortable letting everyone see it. Anyway, fast forward to his early twenties when he starts having sex for the first time. Now I think his girlfriend is pretty damn cool, but apparently she's had significantly more experience than him. Anyway, he says he's a lot more comfortable with his body, but he happen to mention that she had told him, wait for it...that He Is Just The Right Size For Her. Maybe I'm directing this more at the ladies. I don't know. Anyone respond, but is that code for: "You're not bad, but a big dick would be better?" I don't really feel the need to say anything to him about. I think their relationship is pretty solid, but the quote kind of fascinates me. You'll occassionally hear it or something similar get dropped, and every time I've heard of a girl telling a guy this, I inwardly wince. It just seems to me that in an instance like this a girl is usually admitting that a guy is small and isn't even in a position where she feels comfortable lying and telling him he's 'average' or 'big.' But of course, I hold out for the possibility that 'just the right size' may be true since a larger one would hurt her or size doesn't especially matter to her, and it's more a comment on his skill or on their larger relationship. Quite the conundrum.