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The friend zone works both ways - there doesn't seem to be mutual sexual desire although you like each other's personality.

However if a new girl you want to fuck, "friendzones" you, what do you usually do?

Personally I distance myself and put her into the "aquaintance" category of friends, possibly in future if the situation is different maybe things will work out differently.

When I friendzone women, they seem to lose interest in me and stop all contact.
 

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I think you're on the right track. Once you're friendzoned there's nothing you can do. Any action would make you come across as a jerk.
 

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theres always a way around the friend zone. whats worked for me, especially if they enjoy ur company and like being around u is to not be around them. dont give them the attention and they will miss u alot. leave things to her imagination and her mind will do the rest
 

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theres always a way around the friend zone. whats worked for me, especially if they enjoy ur company and like being around u is to not be around them. dont give them the attention and they will miss u alot. leave things to her imagination and her mind will do the rest
Sounds like a good strategy to me!
 

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theres always a way around the friend zone. whats worked for me, especially if they enjoy ur company and like being around u is to not be around them. dont give them the attention and they will miss u alot. leave things to her imagination and her mind will do the rest

For sure! Don't suck up to them. They're getting what they want out of the relationship but you may be suffering over it. Even if they don't come back backing off can save you a lot of mental anguish.
 

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I agree with the posts so far. Keep your distance. Saves you the mental torture and increases the likelihood of her missing you.

And that's about as good an offense as any. Friendzone sucks sometimes!
 

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It seems absourd but the best friend of man is a lesbian woman! Trust me! a friend of mine is lesbian and i have with her my best moment, she is femminie but she is lesbian too so she can give me some tips on how i can "date" with other girls
 

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When a girls have friendzoned me, I've just accepted it and moved on. I, for one, have no difficulty being friends with someone I'd like to fuck (or be in a relationship with) if she were into me. I really don't see where the creepy, stalkerish obsession some people build up comes from. If she isn't into it, move on and find someone who is.

Trying to manipulate her into changing her mind is pretty fucked up, when you get right down to it. If she isn't into you, and you actually like her, just respect that and treat her like a human being. There are billions of women in the world who don't want to fuck you--what's one more?
 

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When a girls have friendzoned me, I've just accepted it and moved on. I, for one, have no difficulty being friends with someone I'd like to fuck (or be in a relationship with) if she were into me. I really don't see where the creepy, stalkerish obsession some people build up comes from. If she isn't into it, move on and find someone who is.

Trying to manipulate her into changing her mind is pretty fucked up, when you get right down to it. If she isn't into you, and you actually like her, just respect that and treat her like a human being. There are billions of women in the world who don't want to fuck you--what's one more?

This pretty much sums it up

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