I looked but wasn't able to find an answer for a potential problem I may have tripped over, hence this post. Should I ask ahead of time (via private message or such) before I send a friend request? Since getting back into using the site, I've just been sending friend requests outright. But I've seen a couple of profiles that state how rude that is, so wanted to see if anyone has any thoughts on the subject. I do take the time to see if a potential "Friend" is 100% straight and therefore might not want to hear from a 100% gay guy, so I don't think that's an issue. Thanks for any help.