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Yes it is possibl, but that starts with you, if you can control yourself, your part is done. You can not control what the others have in mind. I have several fiends that way. So I know it’s possible.
 
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Thanks for commenting, but I would expect to see the “Yes” come from straight guys.

So you don’t believe bonding to form a strong friendship needs to include any common sexual knowledge.
 
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Yes it is possibl, but that starts with you, if you can control yourself, your part is done. You can not control what the others have in mind. I have several fiends that way. So I know it’s possible.
We are talking best friends here. So what do you mean by control your self? Does that include choosing not to know about the other guys sexual interest?
 
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What I meant with control yourself is, if you can control your feelings. That’s a good start. Of course you can find out what the other person wants to. But sometimes is better to have a real friend than having a fuckbuddy.
 
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And viceversa. They may be attracted to me, but I’m not into them. Either or.
Good thinking, but you have moved further in your relationship with this guy than I intended. Start at with your first meeting.

Long before the idea of this guy being a fuck buddy becomes part of your thinking: “Would it be possible for you to be best friends without knowing anything about his sexual interest or what he has in his shorts?”
 

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Yes, but most of my straight friends always talk about pussy. Some of my friends are not afraid to take a leak when we're outside. Sometimes take a leak side by side. No biggie. Seen each other naked too but still no biggie.
 

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If you are good friends with someone I think the chances are good that you will discuss past love interests or current pursuits for love. I really think it would be hard to avoid knowing something. Maybe you don't know if he doesn't get off from BJs or likes his girl to do him with a strap-on...or he really only likes missionary position. But you will learn something as you become close. I suppose it's possible to know nothing, but not likely.