So, I've been out of town for about three weeks, visiting friends and family. Last night I was talking online to a close friend of mine, and I asked him if he had found a new job. He said he had, and I said I wanted to visit and get free food (he's always worked in the food industry in some way, as long as I've known him). The convo:
Friend: Um, you can't really eat where I work.
DuvalinCT: Why, are you a stripper or something?
Friend: Well .... yeah.
So I was like ... uh, Holy Shit! I've never had a friend in ... well, THAT industry. We talked about a lot of things (how long he's gonna do it for, that he dancers with a boner, etc, etc). Now, I'm bi and recently broken up with my girlfriend, and he's gay. I've always had a crush on my friend, and I'm thinking of maybe going to visit ... but surprising him there wouldn't be too good an idea. Also, since I've been in a relationship for a bit, since we do flirt alot, it's always been with the understanding that nothing could ever happen.
But now the situation is sort of different. I dunno, I'll probably just get drunk with him and try to fool around (once before, when really drunk, we've kissed and groped/fondled a little. Yes, when I was dating my ex-gf. Unfortunately, as I don't remember, I don't know how big his dick is).
So ... there's the deal. What should I do? How should I go about trying things out? Is it pointless? Thanks guys ...
Friend: Um, you can't really eat where I work.
DuvalinCT: Why, are you a stripper or something?
Friend: Well .... yeah.
So I was like ... uh, Holy Shit! I've never had a friend in ... well, THAT industry. We talked about a lot of things (how long he's gonna do it for, that he dancers with a boner, etc, etc). Now, I'm bi and recently broken up with my girlfriend, and he's gay. I've always had a crush on my friend, and I'm thinking of maybe going to visit ... but surprising him there wouldn't be too good an idea. Also, since I've been in a relationship for a bit, since we do flirt alot, it's always been with the understanding that nothing could ever happen.
But now the situation is sort of different. I dunno, I'll probably just get drunk with him and try to fool around (once before, when really drunk, we've kissed and groped/fondled a little. Yes, when I was dating my ex-gf. Unfortunately, as I don't remember, I don't know how big his dick is).
So ... there's the deal. What should I do? How should I go about trying things out? Is it pointless? Thanks guys ...