Hey just something that has been on my mind lately...I will the first to admit that I party recreationally socially from time to time - its the environment and industry I am in but I have a friend that seems to get out of control w/his drug use...Don't get me wrong - he is not a person that uses drugs everyday but when he does like on a weekend - he always over does it...I mean out of all the people and friends I have - and there are quite a few - he and one other are the only 2 that scare me if I am not watching them...I mean my best friend was in town - somewhat of a torchered soul - has told me that sometimes he doesn't know why he feels like he does and that sometimes when he over does it - he might be trying to subconsciencously trying to kill himself...I mean this guy is extremely good looking and has a great body, has a great career, a gorgeous girl friend, and very confident - to the point of almost cocky (women - you have to stop telling him how great he is in bed..LOL..)...But still he has really dark days - which when you think someone has it all - we all have problems...I mean he is only 25 and on multiple anti-depressants, sees a shrink, and said since he moved - being to a couple NA meetings - which I have told him I am proud of him for...Ok I might have not been the friend I should have been - because I can't say no to him...He said he wanted to go out and party since he was back in town and that he had been so good - so of course I had to take him out and his girlfriend came too...He hides his habits from his girlfriend since she is very anti-drugs and him drinking...So after they got into a huge fight at the club and she left - he got really out of control...So while we were at an afterhours party - he started to pass out in the middle of the club - this is scary - especially since I should know better than to leave him by himself...And this has happened several times before...I really don't know what to do - sometimes I want to distance myself because it is kind of the first time I have been put in this type of situation - but we do have a great connection and probably the one person we can talk about anything and not worry about being judged...I mean sometimes I think he does this to me - to see if I will take care of him like he is testing me some way but of course I always take care of him...So after I got him to my place - I couldn't take him to his girlfriends place in that condition - we were in bed and had a deep conversation to find out where this is coming from and we have had conversations about past family issues that it stems from...He was saying he has bad anxiety and abandonment issues - like he even said once he moved away from where I live - he thought about maybe distancing himself from me because he loved me and thought I would abandon him too...It was pretty sad and actually I think brought us even closer than before...Sorry for such a long post but I really love my friend - and it is a little strange for me to care about someone this much - because I didn't really come from a really affectionate family...I mean I know we love each other in my family but hardly ever say we love each other - I wish I could say it - but that is my issue...So does anyone have a friend or mate in their life that has some issues w/drug use - how do you cope or help your friend - I mean I have threatened to call his girlfriend if he didn't call me back when I know he has made an attempt on his life w/an overdose...