It's over! I caught him with the other guy again. It was only a coffee meeting at a local cafe but he didn't get that if he wanted something with me that he had to delete the profile and dump his "friend". He refused both and yesterday after catching him lying again, I told him it was over. That I gave him able opportunity to make things right and he just wanted things his way. Of course he argued that I get my way but he can't have friends. I said that this so called friend is someone he went off with behind my back, went away for a weekend with, lies about etc. This is something more than friend and since this guy is so important to you, you can have him. I'm outta here. He argued that I have friends he doesn't know. I said, he could meet anyone of of them at any time. I have no secret friends! So I told him no more communication, no texting me, no calling me, no more coming over. Nothing. He broke down and said that if he knew I was so serious he would have done it sooner (LMAO). He did delete the profile but I have no clue and frankly at this point in time, don't care what he did with "Steve". I leave for the US for a month holiday and it comes at the perfect time. One month of just me time!!
Thanks everyone for your support and advice. As tough as you were, you were all very right.