My ex and I have stayed friends - or friendly. I tried the staying away thing and he won't do it. He keeps calling and coming over and does not understand that I need my space. Now I've moved back to the US and he still calls almost everyday. And now he's gone further by asking me to mail him things. He pays for it all but it's getting on my nerves now. And today, me being the nice guy I am, sent him a e-card for Valentine's day. Nothing mushy at all; just a card that says thanks for being my friend. I GOT NOTHING IN RETURN!!! Not even a thank you. Not any acknowledgment. I'm soooo pissed off.... and hurt too, I guess. Stupid me bends over backwards for people and, though I don't expect anything in return for doing favors, not getting any reply hurts a bit. PLUS he wants to come visit over the summer and bring his mom along for the ride.