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Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by luvmycock, Sep 11, 2010.

  1. luvmycock

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    Ok so for the last couple of days I have been checking my friends list on LPSG and I will have members that are my friends but I never agreed to the friendship. When I click on their page it says member or banned and thats it. No info about them, no pics, no comments. Also the names are always something weird like 'Macho McCockstine' or something crazy like that. Honestly I don't even think they exist. Has this happened to you and is there any way to stop it? :confused::confused::confused:
     
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    hey Luvmycock, i haven't had that experience so far although there are a lot of friends on my list who i can't remember very well because we haven't talked much.
     
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    thanks Hung Jon:smile:





    Anyone else?
     
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    The people with funny, alliterative screennames (Boney Boobsucker, etc) are members who've asked that their accounts be deleted.
     
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    oh ok, thanks, but how are they my friends if I don't accept them?
     
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    anyone?
     
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    They probably were your friends under their original name. However, when the account is deleted, the "shell" remains in your page under the new, altered name.
     
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    I've never had that problem. Although I must admit, I have friends on my list that I've never had PM exchanges with. I accepted their friend requests because we'd posted on thread discussions and we have similar interests and ideas etc. I've never communicated privately with them and I'm never likely to meet them in real life but I'm very happy to have them.
     
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    thanks guys
     
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    Hi Luvmycock, (btw, I "loveyurcock" :smile:)

    No one can be on your friends list if you haven't at one point accepted their request.

    As others have said, at one point you accepted "Coolguy"(made up) as a friend. "Coolguy" at a later date asked that his account be deleted. His info is cleared from his profile, and the mods deleted his original screen name, and assigned "MartyMcFart" to his account.

    Now the account remains on your friends list, and "MartyMcFart" is listed.

    Just un-friend them because they really no longer exist :smile:
     
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