Frightening Ordeal in Bathroom

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...instead of getting the message and leaving me the hell alone, I finish whipping just in time for his hands to dart under the stall, grab me by the ankles and start dragging me under the partition into his stall!!!
The moment he touched you, he was guilty of assault - no excuse for that.

But I have to ask, the part of your post in bold font above... does that mean you were masturbating? If so, right or wrong, it may have encouraged him. Again, I'm not saying that it gave him any right to attack you, but he may have interpreted masturbation in a public restroom to be an invitation.
 

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innowhere, that's really scary. I am glad you have decided to report this even though you can't completely ID the guy. Considering what an outrageous, high-risk attack this was, it is unlikely to have been the first time this perpetrator has tried something of the sort. And if it doesn't get reported, it is unlikely it will be the last. Even if you can't pinpoint the guy, your information could lead to something that will stop him and prevent there from being further victims. Sorry this happened to you, and glad you're OK.
 

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Gillette & Honeydew are correct. You have been attacked, you feel violated. Get off the computer, and run don't walk to the nearest police station to report this psycho bastard. Take a copy of the police report with you to the campus police and the Dean of Students. Heck, leave a copy in an envelope with the President's Secretary.

Knowledge is Power.

If it happend to you, it has happend and will happen to someone else.




Having been a victim of rape on a college campus, you need to go to the college security and report what you know. Don't stop there though. Go to the local police as well. sometimes college campuses keep things low profile and do not follow up as well as needed. what you tell them , added to what others hopefully tell can lead them to catch this guy and keep it from happening to someone else.


That is the freakiest thing I've ever heard.

This situation was not covered in the male bathroom ettiquette video but I may be able to extrapolate.

Rule:

Any appearance of a body part under a stall wall must be preceeded by a request for toilet paper, and in such a case only the hand should be seen. If no request has been made and/or the part in question is anything other than the hand feel free to (A) use it as urinary target practice, or (B) stomp the crap out of it with gusto until said part is withdrawn.
 

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Also, folks, keep in mind that this (at least used to be) a favorite method for thieves to steal wallets and laptops. Whether the intent was robbery or sexual, it should still be reported.
 

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Although being gay I am not a big fan of bathroom sex but I am not opposed to it in discrete circumstances. However this guy is a complete asshole and needed to be dealt with. Scaring him outside with other guys with no violence would have been good. Also calling the cops but they most likely wouldn't have made it in time. I would have felt the same as you even though i enjoy sex with men. No means NO!
 

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I'm tempted to tell you to call the governor. Huntsman, not Arnold. In all actuallity, the Salt Lake Tribune, several years ago, told of a man who was raped in a darkened hallway at the U of U by another man who was a transient that was sleeping there in cold weather. He was forced at knifepoint into a restroom where it happened. Nothing funny about this. Proves anything is possible. This was an act of violence. Pure and simple.
 

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As to my earlier posts...no it was no fantasy, it's real, I was just hoping I wasn't the only person this has ever happened to...honestly it scared the holy bejesus out of me and I'm still kinda shaken up over it ( I waited to go to the restroom until I was at work and could lock myself in a room with ONE toilet ).

Anywho, follow up... I spoke with the Dean today, went to him first thing, and he called the cops for me, helped me to file the report. Then he told me he's gonna increase security, starting sometime next week as I guess he's got some paper pushing to do. So I guess some good is coming of this.

That whole thing about the guy getting raped on campus is really scary too, the only building I know of that turns it's lights off/down is Olson Spencer, and that's the building I was in. However I don't think carrying pepper spray, or especially a knife is the answer- those backfire too easily. If he doens't have a weapon I don't want to give him one ya know. I think my best protection right now is probably awareness and my cell phone.

oh and whipping was supposed to be wiping...dumb spelling error I know, sorry.

Thanks guys.
 

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<In my best Emily Litella voice:> Never mind.


It is a awserious situation you responded to (and in a very understanding way) but this was so funny I had to laugh!


Oh, ok, I get it. Duh.

<In my best Emily Litella voice:> Never mind.
 

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It has been at least 15 years since I went to the University of Utah. There are some restrooms all over campus that had a lot of problems like that - when I was there, there were glory holes between almost all the stalls, the school cut the bottom half of the door off the stalls to try and prevent a lot of action. I always tried to 'hold it' because I had heard quite a few scary stories like innowhere's.

A couple of years later when my brothers went to the "U" they told me the bathrooms were all cleaned up. It surprises me that the campus security doesn't still keep an eye on the bathrooms still...
 

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The poster who intitated this thread has in his profile that he is laid back and likes to suck a big dick. Before reporting this incident, I would like to ask him to consider the consequences if somehow this turns into an inquisition about his reasons for being in the washroom. I am quite certain that homosexuality is frowned upon (to say the least) in Utah, and I would hate for the victim to be persecuted. I guess my advice would be for him to exercise caution before he takes any action. If I am wrong here, I would like to hear from others.
 

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HEY SERVICEMAN!

I bet you are a detective or have police experience! I just looked at the YAHOO PROFILE of "INNOWHERE". Guess what his NICKNAME IS?? You ready for this "ONLYSUCKSTR8GUYS"---LOFLMAO!!!!

What further need have we of witnesses!!:biggrin1::biggrin1::biggrin1::biggrin1::biggrin1::biggrin1::biggrin1::biggrin1::biggrin1::biggrin1:

PS--Now this is beginning to sound like a "BJ" deal that went awry. Thanks for helping us do a reality check!

RICKY_27
 

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I don't know, guys. Even if this were a "BJ deal gone awry" :)confused:) that doesn't mean he or anyone deserves this kind of a scary assault. Dragged by the ankles under the stall? Come on -- nothing that he could possibly have done would excuse that kind of a violent reaction.
 

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Serviceman is right, homosexuality isnt' really welcome in Utah. A guy was beat up at the jazz festival and the guys that did it were never persecuted. The guy has permanent injuries.

As to the "bj gone awry" theory...that's bullshit. straight up and end of story. I tend to be more talk than show, but in person am pretty shy.

Anyway, my campus is pretty gay tolerant...and in good news I did notice on the way to my classes more security, which i was told was gonna happen monday, so that's good. Again thanks for your help.
 

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The poster who intimated this thread has in his profile that he is laid back and likes to suck a big dick. Before reporting this incident, I would like to ask him to consider the consequences if somehow this turns into an inquisition about his reasons for being in the washroom. I am quite certain that homosexuality is frowned upon (to say the least) in Utah, and I would hate for the victim to be persecuted. I guess my advice would be for him to exercise caution before he takes any action. If I am wrong here, I would like to hear from others.
um... that was uncalled for...
HEY SERVICEMAN!

I bet you are a detective or have police experience! I just looked at the YAHOO PROFILE of "INNOWHERE". Guess what his NICKNAME IS?? You ready for this "ONLYSUCKSTR8GUYS"---LOFLMAO!!!!

What further need have we of witnesses!!:biggrin1::biggrin1::biggrin1::biggrin1::biggrin1::biggrin1::biggrin1::biggrin1::biggrin1::biggrin1:

PS--Now this is beginning to sound like a "BJ" deal that went awry. Thanks for helping us do a reality check!

RICKY_27
You are just a f'ing jerk... my screen name is Think_Kink... are you assuming something about that too...
 

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I think I may need to put down the Tribune and get a life. In all honesty I read a column that stated the U of U was one of the more gay friendly
institutions in the U.S. As usual, there in nothing usual about this state. Many well known and wealthy people in all walks of life, have been caught in precarius situations in this state. To the man who said that Orson Spencer Hall, was the only place that was unlit at night, I think that the report that I spoke of, may have made a difference. I certainly hope so, as my sister works there sometime late into the evening.

If, as one previous commentator implied, that maybe the author of this had somehow put himself in a bad position, one must realize that we have the same stories and con's as the rest of the nation. Our claim to fame here though, is that our "News of the Weird" is unique to Utah. If you doubt me for an instant, just ask Donny and Marie. Our presidential hopeful, Mit Romney, etc. etc. etc....Like "Energizer Bunny" goes on and on and on...

Never a dull moment!
 

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I have been in some of the cruisiest college bathrooms in America, and I have never had any experience even remotely like yours...
 

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I finish whipping just in time for his hands to dart under the stall, grab me by the ankles and start dragging me under the partition into his stall!!!
Since you were whipping yourself, the guy in the next stall probably thought you wanted some S&M action! :biggrin1: