- Lito,
My sad tale.
A month ago, I started dating my neighbor, a seemingly smart and attractive woman. We've been friends for an year, so I figured I knew her enough.
Point is, she is really needy and demands a lot of time from me, things that I don't take so well.
One month later (1 week ago) I broke up with her. She didn't take it very well and started showing up every day with excuses.
I talked to her, tried being patient and everything, until last night, when everything went to Hell.
She came to my apartment for a "talk". After repeating the same story about how she liked me and all, I told her, clearly, that I'm not going back to her... then she starts blaming me beacause I don't want to be with her (wtf?)...
Tired of the ocnversation, I said I was going out to a nighclub nearby. She followed me. I said "go away", she still followed.
One hour later (completly ignoring her presence in the nightclub) , I kissed a lovely asian woman.
Well, she shows up and start talking trash to the girl. I try to shut her up, she wouldn't. That's when I got real angry. Pissed, I left the club and went home...
... she followed.
I pushed her and scremed for her to go away.
she followed
I got in the elevator
she followed
went in MY apartment
she tried to follow.
now I'm screaming things like "I don't want to see you ever again, go away"
she tries to force herself into my home.
I kicked her out. I mean, I didn't hit her, I'm not violent, but I had to force her out.
The freaking girl bit me... i threw her into the ground, shut the door and locked it up.
CONCLUSION: I'm scared with all this shit. I mean, she said she twisted an ankle and had to go to the doctor.
She just pushed me too far... I lost my head.
Now I'm between anger anf guilt. Unbeliavable.
Anyone been through something remotely similar?
A month ago, I started dating my neighbor, a seemingly smart and attractive woman. We've been friends for an year, so I figured I knew her enough.
Point is, she is really needy and demands a lot of time from me, things that I don't take so well.
One month later (1 week ago) I broke up with her. She didn't take it very well and started showing up every day with excuses.
I talked to her, tried being patient and everything, until last night, when everything went to Hell.
She came to my apartment for a "talk". After repeating the same story about how she liked me and all, I told her, clearly, that I'm not going back to her... then she starts blaming me beacause I don't want to be with her (wtf?)...
Tired of the ocnversation, I said I was going out to a nighclub nearby. She followed me. I said "go away", she still followed.
One hour later (completly ignoring her presence in the nightclub) , I kissed a lovely asian woman.
Well, she shows up and start talking trash to the girl. I try to shut her up, she wouldn't. That's when I got real angry. Pissed, I left the club and went home...
... she followed.
I pushed her and scremed for her to go away.
she followed
I got in the elevator
she followed
went in MY apartment
she tried to follow.
now I'm screaming things like "I don't want to see you ever again, go away"
she tries to force herself into my home.
I kicked her out. I mean, I didn't hit her, I'm not violent, but I had to force her out.
The freaking girl bit me... i threw her into the ground, shut the door and locked it up.
CONCLUSION: I'm scared with all this shit. I mean, she said she twisted an ankle and had to go to the doctor.
She just pushed me too far... I lost my head.
Now I'm between anger anf guilt. Unbeliavable.
Anyone been through something remotely similar?