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Something that just put me off track completely...and in a room full of straight people...I just fumed rather than say anything.
The topic was on how other cultures/religions love, live, and seek companionship, and how each one may be slightly different. The definition of Love came into play as well.
So a married guy in the corner Bousts out "What about gays?"
My Instructor replies: "Well they are wired different. I dont know what they want, as im married".
I spoke up and said "The same thing straight people want". But that comment got brushed over quickly, and the "I don't know what they want, or I dont know if they are capable of loving the same way" was enforced and distilled upon the class.
I just needed to vent... not sure if I should speak up in tomorrows class or not... if it comes up again.
What I should have said, being that we were on the topic of Different cultural beliefs, is said:
"Gay men are absolutely NO different than Straight Men, with the exception that they are attracted to the same gender. Everything is absolutely the same. The Same wants, dreams, need for affection, companionship, EVERYTHING is the same"
Whats your take? Help me put my mind at ease.
C
The topic was on how other cultures/religions love, live, and seek companionship, and how each one may be slightly different. The definition of Love came into play as well.
So a married guy in the corner Bousts out "What about gays?"
My Instructor replies: "Well they are wired different. I dont know what they want, as im married".
I spoke up and said "The same thing straight people want". But that comment got brushed over quickly, and the "I don't know what they want, or I dont know if they are capable of loving the same way" was enforced and distilled upon the class.
I just needed to vent... not sure if I should speak up in tomorrows class or not... if it comes up again.
What I should have said, being that we were on the topic of Different cultural beliefs, is said:
"Gay men are absolutely NO different than Straight Men, with the exception that they are attracted to the same gender. Everything is absolutely the same. The Same wants, dreams, need for affection, companionship, EVERYTHING is the same"
Whats your take? Help me put my mind at ease.
C