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Well, his best friend is one of the bar tenders and when bands play he runs the mixing board. In fact he is at the bar more often than I am. We do have a rather peculiar relationship when you think about it, but it has worked without serious conflict for more than five years. I know that relatively speaking that isn't a long time but we are, for the most part, completely compatible. The people that have known us our whole lives say that we were definitely made for each other and even he says that a poor judgment call made while intoxicated isn't grounds for calling off the wedding.
When I initially posted I was drunk and confused; just like I was when I decided to make out with my friend. I take full resposibility for my mistakes but I only answer to one man. If I make a mistake and he forgives me, then I take that as an opportunity to make sure that I never make the same mistake again and I know that the feeling is mutual. Up until now, neither he nor I have made any mistakes serious enough to wonder if we would be forgiven by the other. The fact that I questioned weather or not I would be forgiven caused me to think really hard about my motivation to make the decision I did. I am not so selfish as to put such an amazing man through marriage if I though that I was taking him for granted. I'm just not the kind of girl that thinks she's god's gift to men. I consider myself lucky to be with someone as willing to help me be a better person as I am for him.
The bottom line is, even when I was drunk, it didn't require a big dramatic argument to show me that I made a poor decision out of spite and selfishness. I feel very lucky to be forgiven. I don't see this as an opportunity to take advantage of him, I see a man who deserves the best wife a woman can be and I am thankful for that opportunity. I am going to show him that he picked the right chick because I know I picked the right man!
Not to sound defensive or anything.:biggrin1:
Britt
When I initially posted I was drunk and confused; just like I was when I decided to make out with my friend. I take full resposibility for my mistakes but I only answer to one man. If I make a mistake and he forgives me, then I take that as an opportunity to make sure that I never make the same mistake again and I know that the feeling is mutual. Up until now, neither he nor I have made any mistakes serious enough to wonder if we would be forgiven by the other. The fact that I questioned weather or not I would be forgiven caused me to think really hard about my motivation to make the decision I did. I am not so selfish as to put such an amazing man through marriage if I though that I was taking him for granted. I'm just not the kind of girl that thinks she's god's gift to men. I consider myself lucky to be with someone as willing to help me be a better person as I am for him.
The bottom line is, even when I was drunk, it didn't require a big dramatic argument to show me that I made a poor decision out of spite and selfishness. I feel very lucky to be forgiven. I don't see this as an opportunity to take advantage of him, I see a man who deserves the best wife a woman can be and I am thankful for that opportunity. I am going to show him that he picked the right chick because I know I picked the right man!
Not to sound defensive or anything.:biggrin1:
Britt