this is the tenth time i've been jerked off after being rejected for having a coke can instead of a normal penis. even girls i've had long meaningful relationships with haven't really wanted me. i've barely lost my virginity with a girl after a month of trying lots of foreplay, vibrators and lube. i'm only 22 and hope to hear from people who are older or more experienced. i've seen porn and net girls who would be able to do 'the real thing'. are there real girls, or non sex pros who actually want that? how long did it take you to find a partner who would take you?