Frustration builds up for having a big dick, but no sex.

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uuummm...seriously?

I repeat:



I'm sorry...I stand corrected. It's obviously both


Whatever you think is fine by me. But you still haven't answered my question.
 

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I can get where the OP is coming from. I think a lot of big dicked guys reckon that they have a right to use their cock to pleasure women. Even still, a date has to be earned, and a woman would only see a large cock once both parties are naked and about to do the deed.
 

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I can get where the OP is coming from. I think a lot of big dicked guys reckon that they have a right to use their cock to pleasure women. Even still, a date has to be earned, and a woman would only see a large cock once both parties are naked and about to do the deed.


True, I never, in any sort of way, wanted to say that people with bigger dicks should have more privileges or whatever in that department, everyone is equal for that matter.
 

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So what you are really saying is that you are young & horny, but shy and timid which is making it difficult for you to find someone to have sex with and that leaves you sexually frustrated?
Don't think with/about your dick and start putting yourself in social situations where you can just meet people of all ages. I know you want to have sex, but don't make that the single objective and it will happen.
Something young guys with big dicks need to understand is that a women who has given birth to a baby vaginally can usually accommodate your girth better than a younger/inexperienced one. Of course this in not always the case...
 

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You've got it all backwards. Clearly there are qualities you exhibit which are preventing you getting laid that have nothing to do with your dick. When you figure out what those are and get to work on just being a more likeable and attractive person in general, the rest will follow naturally. It's not about your dick or some extra sense of entitlement because you're bigger than average, especially where women are concerned.
 
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A penis has no purpose out side or procreation, emptying the bladder, and self induced pleasure. There are more things than sex out there to deal with your pent up energy. I use martial arts to run the sexual frustration from my veins.
 

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I can get where the OP is coming from. I think a lot of big dicked guys reckon that they have a right to use their cock to pleasure women. Even still, a date has to be earned, and a woman would only see a large cock once both parties are naked and about to do the deed.

ok well we are on the big cock website not the 'earn a date by being a great guy' website
 

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So what you are really saying is that you are young & horny, but shy and timid which is making it difficult for you to find someone to have sex with and that leaves you sexually frustrated?
Don't think with/about your dick and start putting yourself in social situations where you can just meet people of all ages. I know you want to have sex, but don't make that the single objective and it will happen.
Something young guys with big dicks need to understand is that a women who has given birth to a baby vaginally can usually accommodate your girth better than a younger/inexperienced one. Of course this in not always the case...

come to big Rob baby.... let me show you how much I love mature women
but bring some id cus based on your photos there's no way I believe you are mid 40's!
 

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True, I never, in any sort of way, wanted to say that people with bigger dicks should have more privileges or whatever in that department, everyone is equal for that matter.

Perhaps, but larger cocked guys have more opportunities. Society shouldn't be PC and soft soap that fact.

If you want a date, then be confident and approachable. A big wang in itself won't get dates.
 

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Dude I am in the same boat as you. I am almost 30 and have not had sex for close to 7 years. knowing I have a giant penis affects me sexually because if I am making out/foreplay with a girl I get so anxious for them to see me fully erect that I in-tern render myself impotent. There has actually been a few times when I simply squeezed my flaccid to perform intercourse. This is why I am trying to meet a girl and build a relationship off of lpsg because when they first meet me they can see my cock. The pressure is gone. Usually with girls I feel pressured to tell them that I am large and that in-turn makes me look like a pretentious douchbag. Trust me bud, there are other people in your boat. Having a large member doesn't coincide with extreme sexual confidence. (contrary to what female mags say)
 

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Perhaps, but larger cocked guys have more opportunities. Society shouldn't be PC and soft soap that fact.

If you want a date, then be confident and approachable. A big wang in itself won't get dates.

This is just based on my experiences. But in most cases, confidence, personality, hygiene, and having game gives a guy more opportunities. In fact the most important things I have seen that works is intelligence and for some strange reason, a sense of humor (I was the class clown all through school and believe me it works). At least according to the hundreds of woman I have known in my almost half a century on earth.
 
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Allow me to suggest okcupid as a pretty good dating site that I know some people use to find others for more casual sex with. It's also free. Periods of time without sex happen, dude. They suck, but... c'est la vie. -insert obligatory comment about using condoms-
 

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Well pal. Since you're straight, having a big dick is overrated. Most women don't give it much thought other than if it's too big or too small. It's men, both gay and straight who have a fascination with big cocks. I'm always amazed at how many men who claim to be straight say that they love to watch other men with big cocks fucking, jerking off and cumming. Now, if you want to cash in on having a big cock, you might consider at least getting a blow job from a man, then your dick will be appreciated. It doesn't mean that you yourself are gay any more than jerking off means you're gay.

Good luck.
 

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come to big Rob baby.... let me show you how much I love mature women
but bring some id cus based on your photos there's no way I believe you are mid 40's!

Lets see some pictures of you and thanks for the compliment! :tongue:

Well pal. Since you're straight, having a big dick is overrated. Most women don't give it much thought other than if it's too big or too small.

I disagree with you and I think more women think about it then you realize.
 

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CHP, we each have to find our way in the world. I'm old now, but I remember being 21. I was in college. I was learning to eat pussy and fuck. I don't know if it helps, but women talk to each other. The hard part was getting the first one in bed. After that, they called me.
 

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Appreciate all the comments everyone, thanks. At least there still some respectful going on in here.
 

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Hello,

I am getting to the point of where I'm absolutely tired of not being able to enjoy the supposed great sensation of sex. I'm still young, 21, but haven't had sex for over 3 years now (I don't know anymore, lost track to be honest). And I couldn't really call it sex back then either. Anyway, having a big dick makes it all a ton more frustrating for me aswell, and not being the greatest looking guy in the world (I'm not THAT ugly, just avarage), doesn't just let me pick up a girl whenever I want (hence the monsterous drought). Having a shy/timid character around girls, doesn't help either I guess.
Seriously contemplating to just go to a prositute or something and have a good bang just for the sake of it and just get this weight of my chest, instead of just living in a world full of frustration and read here how people are having a blast letting women enjoy their tremendous treasures. I wanna do it aswell, but I just can't. So should I just take the easy/quick way out, or just keep on living in agony?

Thanks for reading.

I literally am in the exact same boat. I would even say I'm above average looking and have a really big and aesthetically appealing dick, but I can't buy sex at college. The weird thing is I also am very very good around girls, can drink and play beer pong better than most, DJ, 6'4", and I'm 110% straight, and am surrounded by hot girls that I'm stuck in the friend zone with. At this point it's like life is conspiring against me even though I was supposedly set up for success. I'm considering being a lot more vocal about my size because this shit is wack girls are missing out.