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Kinda bugs me that he engages in this practices while having a relationship with a girl
Why let it bug you, Baby, he's getting tons of relief, not to mention, he don't have to worry aout the whole emotional bullshit that goes with typical sex. I have several Fuck buddys, they fuck me, and i send them on their way, simple, easy, and i dont have to commit to anything..
 

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I don't think I'd mind one of my own but I have anti-social issues relationships or even mild friendships do not come easy to me and I have very few friends. I can hardly imagine myself with a FB for that reason.
Hunny, with the way you look, and the size of your dick, Hunny i'd be your fuck buddy in a hot minute. Don't be so down on yourself, your a HOT ass guy, and got a big one at that, so have the attitude of knowing that you are hot, and hung, but, Don't be shallow about it...

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I have had fuck buddies but never while in a relationship...basically for me they are there to get thru the dry spell.
I agree with several posters Mr Bulldog, any time you want you could easily have one or two or three....very handsome with a nice cock.
 
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I appreciate the votes of confidence. I've been told many times I'm too humble anyway. In other words I don't like tooting my own horn haha.
 
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Why let it bug you, Baby, he's getting tons of relief, not to mention, he don't have to worry aout the whole emotional bullshit that goes with typical sex. I have several Fuck buddys, they fuck me, and i send them on their way, simple, easy, and i dont have to commit to anything..
I've actually noticed that while that is his motivation for the practice it usually ends with the some of the girls getting too attached and getting overly emotional to the point of extreme obsession. Then a whirlwind of drama ensues when several of these girls want to have him forever and marry him after about 4 weeks. Kinda a deterrent for me to try o_O haha.
 

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I've had a fuckbuddy while I dated other men, but not when I was in an actual relationship with anyone. Technically I suppose there was a time when two of them overlapped, but not for long. I wasn't having regular sex with either of them, just once or twice a month.

I suppose I consider "friends with benefits" a fuckbuddy, and they're temporary things between actual relationships. If I'm not having sex, I end up in bed with someone, and I'd rather have sex with a friend than begin a relationship with someone who isn't good for me just because I'm horny.

I've never had a fuckbuddy turn into a someone I ended up in a relationship with. If the relationship starts off just being only about sex, for some reason I just don't fall for him. Whatever protective barrier I put up seems to be impenetrable once me or him decides that we aren't going to be in a romantic relationship, just friends.
 

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My friend has had sex with 75 men. She found one guy who is thicker than the rest and she likes his curve because it hits her g-spot and he's the only one to do that. She married him, they divorced for some reason but still have sex. I think he's about 6 x 5.4.
 

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I appreciate the votes of confidence. I've been told many times I'm too humble anyway. In other words I don't like tooting my own horn haha.
Well, if you're not that flexible, there are obviously quite a few people here that wouldn't mind tooting it for you. :biggrin1:
 

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I lived in a big shared house with 7 people after university. There was a cute girl who moved in. We became friends but there was no real emotional connection, just mates. I had a gf, and she had various male interests on the go. Then I broke up with my gf and was single for a few months. One night I had been out drinking and was watching tv, just chilling. She arrived home (she had also been partying), together with another friend. Anyway, the friend went to bed and her and I watched TV for a while. I was suddenly very aware of her next to me and I could feel the energy. Out of the blue, I turned to her and we just started kissing passionately. It was very spontaneous!
Anyway after a few minutes she started to massage my crotch where I was housing a massive hardon. Then she unzipped me and gave me the most amazing blow job. I finally came in her mouth and she swallowed every drop, smiled and then went to bed.

The following night we had sex for the first time and it developed into a proper fuck buddy thing. It lasted about 4 months and we probably fucked 30 times or so. We both admitted that we were not keen on a relationship. She said that she loved sex but didn't want to sleep with random guys/strangers. I was happy with this as the sex was great but I also wasn't looking for more. Once or twice during that time we each fucked other people but it was a great arrangement. Sometimes I would go out and meet a girl that I liked and after kissing her, try and get her to come home with me. If she wasn't keen for more, then I would go home horny as hell and take a shower and then climb into bed with my FB. We would have wild sex and then I would slip back to my room. Nobody else in the house even knew until at least 2 months into the "relationship". Fortunately I moved away so managed to avoid the inevitable mess that would have ensued if one of us had met someone more serious.

She was so cute and whilst I know a relationship would never have worked, I have wonderful memories of wild NSA sex!
 
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From my late teens through my mid-30s, I always classified my sex partners in this order:

Trick: current vocabulary: hook-up: totally random and one-off encounter (two max), occasionally totally anonymous;

Boyfriend: current vocabulary: FuckBud (also called a Regular) : a trick with something so special that intrigues me enough to want to see him more than twice: range of activities, including eating together or catching a movie: limited contact with other friends and family, but still a suitable escort to some minor function if the need arises; familiarity with his life including where he works and his range of interests: average duration would be anywhere from 3-6 months with no expectations of exclusivity whatsoever;

Lover: current vocabulary: Boy Friend or Partner: a shared life revolving around commitments: intense involvement in each other's families: sharing all evening meals (unless out of town), including prep and clean-up: sleeping together in the same bed nightly (unless out of town) until a single home for us could be arranged: expected complete fidelity in the beginning, eventually opening up via discussion and mutual agreement: escorting each other to all functions, whether work or family related and sharing every holiday together; a joint checking account with mutual and equal responsibilities toward all debts accrued either separately or together (except in one case with one lover): the expectation that though the relationship would evolve, we'd never separate.

Over the years, I've had hundreds of fuckbuds; there were many times in my life where I found the arrangement preferable to the intensity of a full-on partnership. Until my late 30s, when I moved away from Boston, easily 70% of my social contacts were fuckbuds who had cooled down to friends (with occasional benefits, sometimes) or ex-lovers.

There was only one exception to this categorization. We met when I was 23 and in an open partnership and wove a strand of lust and passion through each other's lives (despite the break-up of one and the beginning, middle and end of another full-on partnership) until he died in 1990. I freely admitted my love to him, and he to me, but we could not make the move to a full-on partnership as his life was ruled by chaos and drugs. He's not the one who got away, he's the one for whom no rules could be applied.

I wrote about our adventures in a three-part blog post that I posted here a few years back. It's still there if anybody wants to read the whole thing.