fuck fuck fuck

[Quite Irate]

What the fuck do I do?

just got a message about a friend who just tried to kill himself and he's at the hosptial right now but I can't get there.

fuck it, what can I do??

 

[chicagosam]

What the fuck do I do? Just got a message about a friend who just tried to kill himself and he's at the hosptial right now but I can't get there. Fuck it, what can I do??

Why can't you get there? Can someone go in your place and get back to you? I am concerned about you and your friend.

 

[Quite Irate]

I've called someone and they're going.

 

[crescendo69]

If you can't get there or call, be thankful he is still alive. Just go there or call when you can. Others may have better advice for you. I am sorry for your predicament.

 

[headbang8]

There are things you can control, and things you can't. If you can't get to the hospital, you can call. If you can't call, you can keep him in your thoughts. You can even get angry.

But what you can definitely do, is be grateful that someone caught it in time and that he's alive.

I know my advice at a time like this sounds glib, but remember the serenity to accept the things you cannot change.

Your being there right now, may not, in fact, be much help.Tomorrow will bring a new perspective. You'll be able to address it with him, then. And he will be grateful for a friend like you.

 

[Quite Irate]

shit.

 

[Whopper-lee]

What the fuck do I do?

just got a message about a friend who just tried to kill himself and he's at the hosptial right now but I can't get there.

fuck it, what can I do??

Stay in touch with the hosptial on his condition until U can get there.
I'm sure he's in good hands now.
Besides, they may have him in a special ward and/or observeration room
that you may not be able to see him (usually 24 hr min).
I hope when you do get to visit you support him and encourage him to
do some psychotherapy help.
Damn! Always hate to hear about some one trying to take his/her own life.
My prayers and hope things will be better for him and he rides life out to the natural end.
You keep your level head also.:wink:
Be Safe, Be Careful
Whopper-lee

 

[B_Think_Kink]

You're doing as much as you can, if you can't make it there then call him at least, send a card or something so that he knows your thinking about him.

 

[Quite Irate]

I'll be able to get there once a friend gets his car over here in maybe 45 minutes or so.

I heard over the phone that he's critical.

 

[Quite Irate]

I can't lose him. He means too fucking much to me.

 

[Quite Irate]

fuck, I just talked to him in the morning.

 

[D_Kay_Sarah_Sarah]

Hope your friend is ok.

Please Let us know how he is when you get to see or speak to him

 

[Quite Irate]

My friend that was going to pick me up now can't for some unknown reason.

 

[B_Think_Kink]

My friend that was going to pick me up now can't for some unknown reason.

I'm sure there is a logical reason hun, keep your spirits up. *hugs*

 

[D_Kay_Sarah_Sarah]

Just ring the hospital and ask to talk to your friend.. Let him know you are thinking of him and that you are really worried..And tell him as soon as you can get there you will.

That seems the best you can do right now

 

[Principessa]

Oh God I am so sorry!

The others have all given excellent advice, so I won't waste space repeating it. Many times loved ones feel responsible and it's just not so. I speak as someone who has been battling depression for years. I hope y'all know this wasn't your fault.