Before u start commenting on my 1% status this isn't what I'm asking about.I met a guy at a porn shop couple yrs ago and for about a year we just got together every couple months to mess around. Then we started talking to eachother more often an became friends. We have both met each others families, went on trips together, and there for eachother when we had problems. We still mess around some but lately it seams like he doesn't want to do anything and I would rather do stuff with him and he would rather do it with a stranger. I'm fine with no messing around if that's what it takes to be friends. Iv never had a friend like him before but seams like we are always getting into it about something and it normally involves sex. What do I need to do?