1. D_Sumefielde Sumesausage

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    Nevermind
     
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    I saw your post before you erased it and it was an interesting question.
    I was looking forward to reading the replies but if you do a search, I believe that the subject has been touched on before!
     
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    now I'm curious

    have had a few, but they always wanted to take it further

    as I got the sense that what how they felt, I asked them if that was what they wanted ... they would always say no

    those that I never sensed wanted to take it further, I would relate my latest escapades with others

    it turned out that they all wanted to take it further, even though they had denied it, and in each case, I heard it was my fault when the inevitable break-up occurred
     
  4. D_Sumefielde Sumesausage

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    The original question was how to go about getting a fuckbuddy. I added that for me it never worked because of us would develop feelings before it would come to sex, or after which turned it into a relationship (sometimes not longer thenm a few weeks).

    I know it wouldn't work for me. Sometimes I think it could but from my experience I know it couldn't.

    If it works for you, what makes it work?
     
  5. Bbucko

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    If the question is how to meet a fuckbud, the answer is easy: go to a bar or find one on an on-line hook-up site.
     
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    OK dumb question... but what exactly is the definition of a fuckbuddy? I mean, does it have to involve fucking? If it can be stretched to include an ongoing, totally casual, NON-RECIPROCAL pairing based solely on oral sex? then the answer is yes, for me anyway, it is possible to sustain it (satisfying sexually but limited emotionally) for years.
     
  7. D_Sumefielde Sumesausage

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    A buddy for any kind of non relationship based sex.

    Finding someone to have sex with isn't difficult. You can have a lot of sex if you can stand the fact that...you can't stand 99.9% of them(or something about them). In my case it just has to be someone I can laugh with and that sort of thing. Someone I like, maybe even a lot. For me my feelings would hinder casualness.

    My question was, what happened for two people two decide to become fuckbuddys.
     
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    I never understood the definition completely either because isn't any kind of interaction a relationship? I mean the relationship is "we get together, fuck, then part ways." So it's still a relationship. But I know what you're saying.

    I'm the same way. Why would I want to give pleasure to someone that I didn't like? If I like someone enough to want to give them sexual pleasure, then I want to know them in other ways too!

    I always enjoy hearing other people's experiences though.
     
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    A fuckbuddy is a casual sex partner. If you're oral only, then call him/her a suckbuddy :rolleyes:

    Sex-based relationships are still relationships. They're just of the no-strings, no commitment (beyond a scheduled rendez-vous). But I've had FBs who lasted for years. Most last at least several months.

    It's this thing I've always called "casual intimacy": they know everything about me except my last name.

    The criteria for selecting a fuckbud is different from selecting a mate (or even, sometimes, someone you'd be seen in public with as a "date"). The function of the relationship is to enjoy sex. Sure there's conversation, the exchange of phone numbers, etc, but it's a very pragmatic relationship based on sexual satisfaction. You'd be surprised how good some very unlikely people actually are in bed.
     
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    Uncalled for, unnecessary and uninformed attacks will be ignored, asshole.
     
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    Guys like him? I can't imagine there's enough nerve in the world for someone to post something like this. Not to mention the insensitivity towards HIV.

    Since your age isn't posted, I can't attribute it to youth but hell, even the elderly can be as distasteful. I'm going to say a prayer tonight that your head be pulled from your asshole because its clearly so far up there that oxygen hasn't been reaching your brain at all today, leading to senseless, rude, inconsiderate, uptight posting.

    Bless you child, that's the best I can say, bless you.
     
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    I agree, uncalled for. People can be fuckbuddies but still practice safe sex.
     
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    I read that and went...whaaat?

    Fuck buddies does not mean unsafe sex. It's not like fuck buds should be branded as bug hunters.

    Good lord.
     
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    I know plenty of fuckbuddies who practice safe sex, when I was whoring around, it got to a point where I wouldn't even listen to a guy if he wouldn't let me use MY OWN condoms (guys can poke holes ur keep condoms in their back pocket for ages).
     
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    Fuck me. . . .that was the most in ur face posting I EVER SAW ON THIS SITE! Fuck dudes, this is a SUPPORT GROUP! ! Get it? Support fucking group! ! ! ! The bashing on this site must stop. Greek Dude should get a warning for this. ASSHOLE. And just dare attack me too GD, i WOULD DEF HAVE U SUSPENDED! Apologise to Bbucko!
     
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    That was a bit harsh.

    Bbucko was just answering a question and relating his experiences. No one here is promoting unprotected sex; to do so would be irresponsible.

     
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    It's already been reported. I'm taking the high road on this one.
     
  18. D_Sumefielde Sumesausage

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    I'm not that surprised. I've had bad sex with very likely people too.
     
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