Fucking a woman with your big cock

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I'm an average sized guy, so have always been fascinated when I've heard stories from friends about the affect of their cocks on women. Had a friend at Uni who was huge which I knew from taking showers after football. Whenever he slept with a new girl, he said they would be obsessed with his cock, continually sucking him until he got bored of it and even showing up at our house in the middle of the night desperate for him. I'm not sure if he realised how big he was.

I've been thinking about using a bathmate to get my size up. I don't want to debate the success or failure of this product, I would just like to know how genuine reactions of the kind at 2:20 in this video are? Petite white Roxanne Rae tries big back cockig back cock - XVIDEOS.COM

Have you endowed guys experienced this sort of reaction where when you put your dick in the girl that she gasps, eyes rolling back, that type of thing? Really, I would just like to know where to set my expectations and if it's mainly a myth that size makes any difference from your real experiences.

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Yeah man, but don't forget that it depends on the girl too. Not all of them are gonna fawn over or even enjoy a big dick. i'd say you're chances of getting great reactions are much improved tho.
 

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Have you endowed guys experienced this sort of reaction where when you put your dick in the girl that she gasps, eyes rolling back, that type of thing?

Yes, I'd say I get that kind of reaction pretty much everytime I sleep with someone new. Girls always comment and say how amazing it is.

Having said that, I really think you might be placing way too much importance on this. If a girl wants to have sex with you, she wants to have sex with you. The size of your cock is irrelevant.

It's not my business, but I don't see the point of all these penis enlargement products for guys that are of average size - I'm sure the size of your cock is just fine as far as most women are concerned.
 

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It's a common response: ow, ow, ow! The vagina is a muscular tube. It opens only as far as it needs to take a penis or dildo. He's big so it hurts her at first until her vagina opens more and lubricates more and she gets used to the pressure. Notice she asks how much of him is in her: she doesn't know and looks down to see. Then she holds her tum and says it feels like he's in her uterus, which he's not, but he's probably pushing up against her cervix, which is tipping back to lengthen her vagina to take his extra length.

Only the first couple inches of the vagina has nerve endings which stimulate pleasure centers in the brain. It's his long thick shaft sliding back and forth over those first few inches that makes her moan. An average erection is going to stimulate the same area just as much without stretching it so dramatically at first.

Average erection 6". Average vagina 6". If you're average you have plenty.

Remember too that 70-75% of women do not orgasm from vaginal stimulation alone, no matter how big a guy's cock is!

My point? Forget penis enlargement. Don't worry about size. Learn how to make a woman come. Learn how to give great cunnilingus. Learn how she likes to be fingered, held, massaged, kissed. Learn how to hold and move a breast until she comes. Learn her individual preferences and needs.

Real sex isn't porno or porno acting.
 

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Thanks for the responses.

Halcyondays - you make some very good points. I think the whole big dick porn may have given me the wrong idea. I measured myself earlier, I'm 5.9 long and 4.9 in width. Incredibly, this is apparently pretty much bang average for a white male, although I always imagined the average to be more than that.
 

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Porn is way off, a lot of girls dislike big dicks. However also a lot of them like them. Men find it disturbing that women too can have certain demands or needs and voice them. Men can say to one another that they would only date redheads, or women who at least have a c-cup or bigger, and we are sort of fine with that. However when a women speaks out that she would like to have at least 7 or 8 inches, she's a size queen and a sl*t... it's just a, migth i add a very rare, preferance. Altough porn wants us to think that all women like it large. I've had one woman who really liked big cocks, and was really going on about it almost all the time. That just doesn't feel right, you want to be respected and loved for who you are instead of what your packing. If you want to learn more about male self image, i suggest you try and watch the cockumentary-film "unhung hero" it's a great watch and good laugh.
 

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I too am an average hung guy. I am about 1/2" longer than you at 6.5" but almost 1/2" thinner than you at 4.5" in girth. I have been where you are right now in how you are thinking about your dick.

I suggest you stop heading down that track! It doesn't do any good to always be thinking, "If only I were hung bigger, too!" At 52 years old I finally have, and am much more content because of it. Trust me...there are many women that think size is not that important of a factor in a lover. There is SO much more to it!

I have just written about this very topic in my blog. Take a read if you like:

My Journey Of Love and Sex: Learning To Love Your Dick

My girlfriend honestly doesn't understand how much of an issue guys make about size. She has experienced a rich variety and finds good lovemaking takes a whole lot more.
 

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First things first doesn't anyone have the link to the full scene.

Now from my experience as a really hung guy the the best sex and one of the not so good ones I've had in my life came from the same girl. One time it was amazing she was basically like that in the scene you posted after working it in some she went off it was amazing but another time we just couldn't get going she kept saying my dick was too big. And trust me when a girl says that in a non sexual way you don't really want to keep going unless you like hurting women which I don't so we just stopped. I don't get off unless the girl is getting off. Later she told me there was other stuff going on with her that day so that affected her while we were together and it wasnt just because im really big, but my point is having a big dick isn't all fun and game some times you are just too big. You more average guys don't have to worry about that and from what I've learned from the women of this site size really doesn't matter if a girl is going to sleep with you it has nothing to do with your dick size it's because she likes you.
 
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Some women actually do not like a big penis because often times guys with big penises think cramming it all in is the way to go. Most of the time if you get them relaxed they love it. Never the less what they love is usually not what porn and penis enlargement advertisements say they like. I have seem gasps, heard moans, experienced multiple orgasms, and once had milk shoot in my eye; all in the first two strokes with each of these women. I must say though I was not balls deep in any of these scenarios. These women were all very arroused and relaxed.

There are women who enjoy a big penis just as there are women who do not. All women seem to have a better time in bed when you have taken the time to arouse, relax, and communicate with them. Penetration is a physical activity making love is an art. In art the artist is able to physically express emotion. Each person's opinion of what art is will be different. So take your time with a woman and learn to "feel" her. Touch her how she touches you and they will all think your cock is the cock of life.
 

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I think to most girls a big dick is a novelty. After I fucked a girl for the first time they always fawn over it. This one girl just held it and played with it all afternoon long in between fucks. Another girl was a boarder line stalker. It seemed every time I turned around she was there wanting to have sex. But after some time passes they all seem to get their fill and move on. My current girlfriend says she loves my big cock and the way she sucks it I believe her.
 

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There's a reason why average is average. If you're average, then that's great. Being any bigger isn't necessary.

From personal experience, I can say that fucking one girl I was with was amazing because of how she reacted to my size. I went all the way in and she took a deep breath and her eyes went wide, it was fantastic.

I can also say that I've fucked another girl who couldn't accommodate my girth comfortably with her hands, mouth, or pussy. It made sex really awkward and at times painful. As far as I'm concerned, being average means you don't have to worry about something bad happening from either being too big or too small. Just my two cents.
 

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Yes but not from initial insertion. I haven't been with many women so keep that in mind but those facial expressions have usually come later when she's more comfortable. When people say it depends on the woman they are right too. It also helps to note that even if you were to get some sort of reaction like that, it may or may not be consistent.

It also depends on how she's feeling before hand. How her day went. What type of sex she wants at that moment and how you work the...motion...in...the ocean (control of your hips and legs). It mostly (if not all) depends on how she feels about you. If you're the guy for her and she's the type to do that sort of thing then you'll see it.
 

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Thanks for the excellent responses. My mind has been put at rest to a large degree. Having a big cock would be great, but it obviously isn't everything.
 

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hey, she's making a movie...lol. the only time I have seen a woman's eyes roll back and flutter is when they are cumming. with my wife, it means she is having multiple orgasms. it isn't tied to the size of your cock, I can do that with my finger or my tongue. she prefers to cum on my big cock. having a thick cock, means going slow and even then the gal will sometimes move away from you a little until her vagina adapts to your size.

why not try a little PE? most guys can realistically gain an inch in both dimensions. I did. went from big to bigger. girth is easy to gain it seems. length is hard to gain. hey, why not be all that you can be? my wife noticed my size gains, initially she said I was already big enough and not to make it any larger. this was after we resumed sex after having a child. after a few weeks, she said she liked my addl size, especially the girth. she loves that "stuffed' feeling. you'll also increase your flaccid size, creates a nice bulge. gals notice, believe me they do. when a guy walks into a room, women look at his face, then his crotch, then the rest of him.
 
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I'm always skeptical of these "women throw themselves at me cuz i have a big dick." I don't know any women like that, which isn't to say they don't exist, but surely most such stories are made up by the guys who want OTHER guys to know they're hung.
 

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As some guys mentioned on this site, I can get my wife come to several orgasms just with my fingers or my thongue... So definitely this is not a question of size or girth, it is the whole package that counts: the moment, the approach, the dirty talk, the sexy undies, the music, the light, the nasty nipple bites, the moaning or your heavy heart beat...

Sometimes it works that I give her huge orgasms with my 5x5 inch dick, sometimes it doesn't. It all depends on the day, moment, passion and available time. Rarely we come to orgasm at the same time - I usually make sure she at least comes one time before me. This way my door is open for me to cum anytime later... LOL I love when I cum inside her and she then massages my dick with her vaginal muscles until she gets off like hell... Getting her pregnant 3x was (thanks God) the easiest thing in the world!

BTW: Of course I admit to you super hung guys that I'd loooove to be able to impress visually more with my soft dick on sites like this one here or in the odd locker room situation - but sexually, I can take it up with any 9 incher... ;-)