Fucking Friend

Did you ever had a fuck buddy(ies)? (anything sexual even jerking off counts)

  • Yes I had onefewmany!

    Votes: 154 72.0%
  • Such a relationship was offered to me, but I declined.

    Votes: 5 2.3%
  • I would want one, but I never had the chance to...

    Votes: 50 23.4%
  • No it´s jsut sickening!

    Votes: 5 2.3%

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huw ginnit

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Have had in the past, and in certain circumstances they work well, if you can keep to the boundaries, and be aware that you might just be someones "fill in" fuck and not the beginings of a beautiful relationship... The ones that went badly wrong for me happened when the sex got blurred with a social friendship and the whole thing became muddy and confusing, the better ones were straight down to it, grunting sweating animalistic no holds barred sex for sex's sake. They really fit the purpose of the exercise.

To the Original Poster, I hope that you find the friendships you need, i know that Poland at this time is not a very welcoming place for people with a different attitude to sex and relationships. Look after yourself and be strong.
 

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Definitely yes, I've had them. Actually, they're hard to find because if it's casual sex, then many people want just a one time thing. If you're looking for more, then people tend to get emotionally involved. The ones I've found successful were ones that began sexually, then we hit it off enough to be friends too. We were compatible sexually, enjoyed the same humor, then would get together for regular play when it worked for both.

I had a buddy that turned sexual in college (my first m2m experience), and that was a disaster. He decided that was what he wanted for a long term relationship and I was just exploring for fun. So, laying out the sexual expectations first seems to work better in my experience.
 

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To the Original Poster, I hope that you find the friendships you need, i know that Poland at this time is not a very welcoming place for people with a different attitude to sex and relationships. Look after yourself and be strong.


Thanks... yeah it's tough being in this place... all people have to be normal beer drinking straight dudes that like football... it just makes me sick... I'm not even gay but even mentioning that I'd like to jerk off with an other guy... one room, no touching even... just jerking off in one room with an other guy... that would already mark me as a gay person and with that... a mentaly sick guy that needs an electro shock operation... or a baseball bat hit from the bald nazis claiming to be christians....
 

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I never had anyone.. complete virgin.. I kinda envy americans that had a chance ...

Does this "fuckbuddy" stuff work? Cause so far when I talked with some friends they said its a bad idea.... is it bad? ends horribly? ends with regret ? (Im quiting them..)

Honestly, it depends on the parties involved. Seeing as you're a virgin I wouldn't recommend it. A first sexual experience is a powerful thing. Although not everyone's is special, I think the first time you give yourself to someone it should mean more than just getting off. That's only my opinion though.