Fucking Hell

Discussion in 'Women's Issues' started by The Dragon, Jun 17, 2008.

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What should I do

  1. Tell him fuck off you are bad in bed

    69 vote(s)
    46.0%
  2. tell him- sorry I'm busy

    49 vote(s)
    32.7%
  3. Go out with him on the date but not sleep with him

    23 vote(s)
    15.3%
  4. Go out with him and sleep with him hoping that he will put in an effort

    14 vote(s)
    9.3%
  1. The Dragon

    The Dragon New Member

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    A guy that I have known for a little while had an evening together and let's just say that it was a write off.
    The man got off 3 times in 3/4 of an hour and he refused to "go down"
    and he made no effort what so ever to turn me on.
    He rung me tonight for another "date" on the weekend.
    Hence the poll.
     
  2. tiggerpoo

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    What are you asking????
     
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    Someone refused to go down on you?!?! What a ma-roon!
     
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    what an iiiiiiiidiot. he should have his brain examined (thoughts of a chiuaua slapping a red cat fills my mind) oh and what poll?
     
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    Your seeing the general consensus, right?
     
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    Tell him fuck off you are bad in bed!

    You have to take a stand and not let these guys get away with being selfish. But you need to tell him the reason so there is a chance that he will improve. If he says he will be different this week, tell him it's too late, he had his chance. Tough love!
     
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    Just sit on his face then, he'll have to do something to breath .. lol
     
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    I voted 'fuck off'. But you could just tell him it doesn't work for you. He sounds like a selfish lover and selfish people don't change their ways over night. Plenty of fish in the sea.
     
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    Enquiring mind wants to know........... was this your first sexual experience with him? No prior indication of such boorish behaviour?
    His knuckles drag the floor of the cave- forget him!!:tongue:
     
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    If you have to ask us,then bend over bitch!Get real you can't be this dumb!...........
     
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    Any man that does not give a woman her pleasure in bed but takes better care of his own needs, just seems to be more into himself than the woman he's with.

    He could have been nervous, or something, but I would pass on seeing him again sexually.
     
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    The guy was a dud in bed, what's the point of even considering another encounter that results in only his pleasure not yours?
     
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    I guess you know best when you say that he didn't make any effort to please you..


    Maybe I, er, I mean he just didn't know how? :lol:
     
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    Tell him,
    Sorry I'm busy, finding other men who know how to please ME!
     
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    Dig it, that'd be my response as well. No point in pursuing anything more from the putz if he don't consider your pleasure as well his.
     
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    Just tell him you are busy with someone who can sexually satisfy you :yup:
     
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    Not to make light of the situation but your location show you are from Australia, the Land down under. And the guy is dumb enough to not go down under on you. If he doesn't want to orally satisfy you then don't orally do him. If I was you though, I would just tell him that you didn't enjoy the sex and don't want to see him again.
     
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    mmhm.
     
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    Give him another chance... always, someone deserves second chance, if he is ok as a person
     
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