Fucking Hell

What should I do

  • Tell him fuck off you are bad in bed

    Votes: 69 46.0%
  • tell him- sorry I'm busy

    Votes: 49 32.7%
  • Go out with him on the date but not sleep with him

    Votes: 23 15.3%
  • Go out with him and sleep with him hoping that he will put in an effort

    Votes: 14 9.3%

  • Total voters
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The Dragon

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A guy that I have known for a little while had an evening together and let's just say that it was a write off.
The man got off 3 times in 3/4 of an hour and he refused to "go down"
and he made no effort what so ever to turn me on.
He rung me tonight for another "date" on the weekend.
Hence the poll.
 

Jovial

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Tell him fuck off you are bad in bed!

You have to take a stand and not let these guys get away with being selfish. But you need to tell him the reason so there is a chance that he will improve. If he says he will be different this week, tell him it's too late, he had his chance. Tough love!
 

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I voted 'fuck off'. But you could just tell him it doesn't work for you. He sounds like a selfish lover and selfish people don't change their ways over night. Plenty of fish in the sea.
 

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Enquiring mind wants to know........... was this your first sexual experience with him? No prior indication of such boorish behaviour?
His knuckles drag the floor of the cave- forget him!!:tongue:
 

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A guy that I have known for a little while had an evening together and let's just say that it was a write off.
The man got off 3 times in 3/4 of an hour and he refused to "go down"
and he made no effort what so ever to turn me on.
He rung me tonight for another "date" on the weekend.
Hence the poll.


If you have to ask us,then bend over bitch!Get real you can't be this dumb!...........
 

alex8.5

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Any man that does not give a woman her pleasure in bed but takes better care of his own needs, just seems to be more into himself than the woman he's with.

He could have been nervous, or something, but I would pass on seeing him again sexually.
 
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I guess you know best when you say that he didn't make any effort to please you..


Maybe I, er, I mean he just didn't know how? :lol:
 

debian4life

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Not to make light of the situation but your location show you are from Australia, the Land down under. And the guy is dumb enough to not go down under on you. If he doesn't want to orally satisfy you then don't orally do him. If I was you though, I would just tell him that you didn't enjoy the sex and don't want to see him again.