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Ive had a few times where once the ladies copped a feel suddenly things got more um..passionate and led to sex on the first date....no complaints from me!
Perhaps they did save it for the girls. Who knows. My Dad actually also left the priesthood and married my Mom. Good thing too or I wouldn't be here!
My Dad was all over the world 30 years ago - probably his fault:smile:
Hehe, I love you. You're such a dork.
It's my impossible dreams of the future, & absurdly romantic nature, that make a connection to, & overwhelm women on a 1 to 1 basis.:biggrin1:
We'll see about meeting someone IRL. I certainly wish I was having lots of birthday sex.
You know what will probably happen if you keep on doing the same thing. Do something else - that way lies adventure!
I've done it...more than once. Sometimes its good, sometimes not.
Now that I'll be 26 this Wednesday.
I was raised as catholic as well, the hard mexican line, all the issues i had with sex where all myself, the church got nothing to do with them, i never liked much the view of the church with sex or things like thatI probably didn't have it as bad as other catholic kids since my parents were liberal. I was mostly told to wait until marriage or if I was in a committed loving relationship. And my parents certainly didn't agree with what the Catholic Church thought about contraption, homosexuality and the priesthood.
Anyway, that's a whole other thread.
I've been having this fantasy lately of going on a first date with this guy I want to meet and letting him fuck me. Where we just have a really good time on our date and go back to his place and have crazy passionate sex.
That led me to think, how many of you would actually have sex on the first date? What do you think about it?
I never have but my mind certainly wanders about doing it (pun intended? I'm not sure) with this guy. I know the common thing said though is that guys would never date a girl who gave it up on the first date. I'm inclined to think that's not true.
I'm just curious if other girls have fantasies like this.
If you're secure with yourself i don't see the problem.The big matter is your intentions after the first date fuck.If you're looking for love,I wouldn't recommend it.Who ever you're dating will have sex with you the moment you ask,thats just the nature of the human male.Most won't get into a serious relation with you, so if you're looking for love you have to be willing to take that gamble. But if you just want a sexual encounter i don't see the problem from your perspective.
Exactly, that's definitely the thinking I went through from 20-23. Now that I'll be 26 this Wednesday, I have a very different view of sex and relationships that I did when I was 18.
I probably didn't have it as bad as other catholic kids since my parents were liberal. I was mostly told to wait until marriage or if I was in a committed loving relationship. And my parents certainly didn't agree with what the Catholic Church thought about contraption, homosexuality and the priesthood.
Anyway, that's a whole other thread.
It can happen on the first date if that chemistry and rapport are there...
If anything... I have learned the hard way that I only want a relationship that has that intense heat from the first moments together.... whether you do it... or just really really want to do it, immediately.
All this multiple date, warming up to the person... all that... its just talking yourself into liking someone... or its a reflection of being guarded and reluctant to take a risk... ( meaning your heart, not so much your health- I assume reasonable precautions )
I'll take mine with passion, please.