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I'll put my 2 cents into this thread.
I must be a bit older than a lot of you here as I'm in my early 50's now - and back when I was dating in the late 70's and early 80's - sex on the first date was no big deal and almost expected.
Back then most everyone was on the pill and as it was pre-AIDS, almost no one used condoms. I saw posts from other guys who said they'd had lots of first-date sex and I can tell you that it was the norm back then and I can add my name to that list.
I've been now married for over 20 years and I can say that my wife and I most definitely had sex on our first date - steamy car windows and all! And yes, I knew she'd done so many times before me - but again, this was about 30 years ago so times and norms have changed.
I suppose many people would find all of this distressing but it is the way it was. Can't say if it was better or worse - there is a lot to be said for "getting sex out of the way early in a relationship".
I actually had the occasion to watch the old movie "Fast Times At Ridgemont High" recently that dates back to 1981 when it was filmed and you can see the different sexual behavior clearly if you watch the movie.
I must be a bit older than a lot of you here as I'm in my early 50's now - and back when I was dating in the late 70's and early 80's - sex on the first date was no big deal and almost expected.
Back then most everyone was on the pill and as it was pre-AIDS, almost no one used condoms. I saw posts from other guys who said they'd had lots of first-date sex and I can tell you that it was the norm back then and I can add my name to that list.
I've been now married for over 20 years and I can say that my wife and I most definitely had sex on our first date - steamy car windows and all! And yes, I knew she'd done so many times before me - but again, this was about 30 years ago so times and norms have changed.
I suppose many people would find all of this distressing but it is the way it was. Can't say if it was better or worse - there is a lot to be said for "getting sex out of the way early in a relationship".
I actually had the occasion to watch the old movie "Fast Times At Ridgemont High" recently that dates back to 1981 when it was filmed and you can see the different sexual behavior clearly if you watch the movie.