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you did what you felt was right. And I agree it might have gotten there to that point sooner or later, no matter what you had first decided to do.
WOW, I guess when I originally posted this whole story naively I thought somehow I was just venting instead now I am defending whether or not it really happened, my spelling and grammar, the fact that I was NUDE and Clean-Shaven and somehow was asking for it, the lack of control I exhibited and my own stupidity in lowering myself not only with the punch but the name calling FUCK I am so confused.
First of all regrettably it did happen at Golds GYM in Thousand Oaks, CA.
Secondly and most importantly I believe is that although I was NUDE and Clean-Shaven I have been a member at this gym now for over ten years and have utilized both the sauna and steam room in the buff. I dont enjoy stepping inside with my workout clothes on, or underwear, or even my Speedos which I use in the pool and hot tub. I do sometimes sit on a towel but do not cover up in one nor do I believe I should have to nor is this somehow asking for it. This I am positive on. Although I freely admit to enjoying shocking or catching the eyes of some who are in the sauna or steam with me it has been harmless up to now.
I also agree that I should have just sat there and let them run their suck cause they werent going to do anything physically with me regardless of their negativity. Punching someone although a quick release isnt in the long run a good one in fact my right hand is swollen due in part to a previous injury. So NO I am not proud of what I did and I do realize I could have seriously hurt someone and YES as it has been pointed out I could have been the one in trouble. I do want to remind you though that the other two gentlemen were quick to go to my defense with the management. These two guys were looking for trouble regardless of who they just caught me at the wrong time.
Where as I dont agree that somehow their words made me squirm because I too question my sexuality nothing could be further from the truth I know who I am. Unfortunately though, I am sick of the narrow minded persuasiveness which still exists even in 2011. It is a kin to the young kids getting bullied in school.
Lastly I want to say I apologize for getting so many upset, my intention was to vent myself not start a war of words. I made a lot of mistakes myself but hopefully regardless of how I chose to resolve this they will not be so quick to say stupid things in the future to anyone no mater how they are dressed (or not), or how they walk, or talk.
I would like to think we are at a place in time when we can quit judging or the name calling of others regardless of how different they are from us and our beliefs. As a straight man I have GAY men and women as well as Transsexuals as friends. Where some who know me would guess initially that I am a conservative cause of short cropped hair or serving in the Marines I am not. Again you cant judge a book by its cover. When I was younger and had long hair (in the 70s) it was immediately understood that you were some sort of Druggie well that was far from the truth. I was a jock, it was the 70s at a time when Rock n Roll and David Cassidy and Partridge Family were on TV. Today as I see young guys with their pants hanging to their crotch I dont get it but I dont say that they are all some how Gang Bangers.
Just because a woman wears a tight pencil skirt with a sheer blouse and no bra doesnt mean she wants you.
I hope I have explained myself a little more clearly.
As for sitting bare ass naked on the tile in the Sauna in the gym, I assure you that the gym I go to is clean and I am in no way the only man who is doing this.