Fucking someone "out of your league"?

[Pitbull]

Men will fuck anything with a hole.

Some men will.
Most men will not.

Most men do have standards.
They may be quite low...
...but we do have standards.

:smile:

 

[dolfette]

Some men will.
Most men will not.

Most men do have standards.
They may be quite low...
...but we do have standards.

:smile:

which often vary according to,
beer consumed,
and,
likelihood of mates finding out.

 

[Not_Punny]

This thread is confusing. Fucking out of your league and dating out of your league are 2 separate things. Men will fuck anything with a hole.

I agree with the first two sentences, but not the third.

Nope never felt that way. Don't take this as arrogent, but enjoy it while it lasts. Your lack of self esteem and trust in him is more likely to turn him off than a few extra pounds.

Also agree.

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If you enjoy the situation, don't worry about leagues. No such thing as a "league" in a steady FB situation.

But from the sound of it, what you DO need to worry about is what you will do if one of you decides to make it "official" (take it to dating status). Do you want to date? What will you do if HE wants to date?

 

[Incocknito]

I fucked a girl who was out of my league once. I guess my cock was out of her league too cos she was the worst shag I ever had.

But its good that it worked out for you.

And you have the perfect womanly body. I can see why he is so keen.

NP raises a good penis.

I mean...point. And she has a great ass!

 

[ConstantComment]

This thread is confusing. Fucking out of your league and dating out of your league are 2 separate things. Men will fuck anything with a hole.

A woman compared her experience between doing proper online dating and advertising for an FB through the personals. She noted that the hotter guys would contact her for the FB arrangement but more ho hum guys contacted her for the proper dating.
I did read how one guy observed that when women get laid by a couple of hot guys they assume that they can get that level for an LTR and remain dateless.
I think there is such a thing as having too much confidence. At university a homegirl came along to do her masters. She had gone to rural university where she was an athlete and a cheerleader and had a fair few men eating out of her hand. Despite the different environment, she assumed she could get whomever she wanted and wasted her time chasing one guy (of course, because when you’re that confident you know you’ll get it when you try hard enough) and the object of her affections just couldn’t be bothered.
Personally, I don’t think in terms of being out of a guy’s league. If he’s not interested then I just assume that I’m not his type. I do think though that woman can raise their prestige by their behaviour (what they accept and reject) and by who surrounds them. This is why it’s key not to be seen chase (ie, you're so hot, good things come to you). I remember a guy pal admitting that when he knows that his date has family that take interest, he treats the woman a whole lot better.
Just keep your standards in how you allow this guy to treat you and that will be enough for him to wonder if he's up to your league.

 

[B_625girth]

i thought this thread would talking about dating(fucking) someone in a different financial circle. I fucked a few rich girls with my poor white trash dick, they liked it, but you just knew this was very temporary.

 

[D_Maurice Mountlilly]

people i work with or people i've grown up tell me this all the time.
not to brag,but i've had alot of pretty women.
AND I AM WHAT YOU CALL AN UGLY DUDE!!!!!!!!
i never put much thought into the looks thing when it came dating,
but when i'm seen out on dates or at bars,ect.
people are amazed with the women i've been seen with.
nobody should think of themselves as in or out of a league,and if they do think that way why be involved with someone so shallow?
LIFE IS TOO FUCKIN' SHORT YA'LL!!!!!

 

[rob_just_rob]

I have felt that way. In both situations, though, I discovered that she was not nearly as great as she appeared.

 

[B_jeepguy2]

so, this might sound kind of weird, but here's whats on my mind:

i met a guy at my friends wedding a few months ago. he wasn't involved in the wedding at all, but came to the after party we had (friend of a friend). we wound up hooking up because..........well, it was late, we were drunk, he was cute. long story short, it was phenominal and we've been fuck buddies ever since. Usually 2 to 3 times a week. Now, my type is typically chubby guys with tattoos and facial hair (think Seth Rogen if he was into metal). But this guy is 6'2", absolutley gorgeous (looks JUST like Sean Williams Scott -- "Stiffler" from American Pie), and is a professional athlete -- meaning 6-pack, incredibly toned body, the works. and of course, he's hung (pictures in my gallery). as for me...........i'm 5'10", chubby (i don't consider myself fat, i'm a size 14/16 and carry it mostly in my tummy, luckily im tall) but have a decent rack and have been told i'm excellent in the sack.

anyways, the point is that he is, to be honest, WAY out of my league -- and i think he knows that too, but he wants to see me all the time because i do everything he likes in bed. but i still feel awkward, like he might look at me one day and be like "why the hell am i fucking her?" and ill never see him again.

i am NOT fishing for compliments. im perfectly comfortable with what i look like, im really just looking to see if anyone else has ever felt this way too.

You need to totally get over it and enjoy the sex. Who cares if you think he is out of your league and not the type you usually go for. Also don't worry about the extra pounds some guys like women with a little junk in the trunk! Also some girls who are really hot are also really lousy in the sack! :wink:

 

[D_Petherick_Poundlouder]

I have a hard time thinking in this whole league crap.
When I do - I feel like shit - and I dont like feeling like shit.

Forget leagues, lets just play with my balls.

 

[D_Bodacious Appetite]

Your are by no means unattractive. And lets be real for a second because this illusion needs to be deal with. GOOD LOOKS DOES NOT EQUAL GOOD SEX. So lets say he did find someone who looks what you would consider as better than you, they may not be as good as you sexually or might just downright suck. People stick to what they like and regardless of looks your giving him what he wants so hey.

In my case yeah I've been with some girls who I have considered WAY out of my league. We can pretend leagues don't exist but they really do. Some Girls/Guys are very vain and consider themselves supermodels who need to be waited on hand and feet. But I'll say one thing I know I'm about an average looking guy but I'll make any girl pass out in pleasure. This one girl I was friends with who was just gorgeous would always laugh and dismiss me when I would ask her out so one day we are just chillin and watching movies so we start talking about sex she starts joking saying she used to only the best and I probably couldn't please her. So she bets me I couldn't even eat her out right. So she says she will only let me go down on her. Next thing she knows I'm pulling off her jeans and sucking her clit till she pops. I spread her open and started fucking her till she soaked my sheet. We never had sex again after that because she had a boyfriend at the time but she still considers me her best.

Sex experience > Having the best looks

 

[Viking_UK]

From the sound of things, he keeps coming back. To me, that means he doesn't consider himself out of your league. Obviously you're enjoying it and so is he. If it ain't broke, don't fix it.

 

[Smooth88]

Your are by no means unattractive. And lets be real for a second because this illusion needs to be deal with. GOOD LOOKS DOES NOT EQUAL GOOD SEX. So lets say he did find someone who looks what you would consider as better than you, they may not be as good as you sexually or might just downright suck. People stick to what they like and regardless of looks your giving him what he wants so hey.

In my case yeah I've been with some girls who I have considered WAY out of my league. We can pretend leagues don't exist but they really do. Some Girls/Guys are very vain and consider themselves supermodels who need to be waited on hand and feet. But I'll say one thing I know I'm about an average looking guy but I'll make any girl pass out in pleasure. This one girl I was friends with who was just gorgeous would always laugh and dismiss me when I would ask her out so one day we are just chillin and watching movies so we start talking about sex she starts joking saying she used to only the best and I probably couldn't please her. So she bets me I couldn't even eat her out right. So she says she will only let me go down on her. Next thing she knows I'm pulling off her jeans and sucking her clit till she pops. I spread her open and started fucking her till she soaked my sheet. We never had sex again after that because she had a boyfriend at the time but she still considers me her best.

Sex experience > Having the best looks

Truth hahaha. Wish I had a situation like that.

 

[Principessa]

From the sound of things, he keeps coming back. To me, that means he doesn't consider himself out of your league. Obviously you're enjoying it and so is he. If it ain't broke, don't fix it.

AMEN!

To the best of my knowledge I have never fucked someone out of my league. I have when young, dumb, and quite drunk done a guy in the minor leagues. :redface: We used to call that 'going slumming.'

 

[alteclan2307]

hahaha preach!

 

[TheRob]

I dunno your cute andhave big tits
how do you know what your league is?

 

[helgaleena]

If you like what you are doing with him, let your second guessing go. Find out if you have other things in common besides the great sex. Begin to have other types of friendship with him if you can. This is a relationship to treasure just as it is.

Keep also in mind that many women get better looking as they age. I think I have.

 

[KTF40]

Forgive me, I know the connotation of this sounds mean lol... but did you take the pics with you and him out of your gallery? I didn't see the Sean William Scott looking hung guy with a 6 pack :tongue:

Yeah I got to agree. I'm seeing none of that in her gallery.

I was in a similar situation to this. My last fwb was out of my league. She was beautiful, extremely funny, and highly intelligent. We had to end the relationship in August and it's fucking January and I still think about her. I guess this biggest problem is I feel like I've peaked in terms of my sex life and it's like damn, everything from here on out will be down hill and I'm only 22! It's as if I was spoiled at too young an age.

 

[helgaleena]

KTF40, your glass is half full, not half empty, lol... I am 52 and having more sexual pleasure than I ever did even when I was sleeping all over campus.

 

[mako shark]

I've done some "charity work" over the years, but if if it makes my partners happy who gives a crap? Wouldn't bring them all home to mamma though...