islandfoz don't give up hope. I'm 53 years old and have just found someone that can take my entire length, and I mean all the way to my pubes, and not scream for me to take it out. I didn't expect it to ever happen and had given up all hopes of ever finding someone that could. Still a lot of foreplay and tons of lube were used to accomplish a full insertion. The wait was definately worth it as was all it took to finally accomplish the act. I guess what I'm trying to say is don't give up and just keep on trying, it'll happen when you least expect it.
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i'm gonna throw in my two cents here. i'm an average guy, i joined this site because i was in a longterm relationship with someone who would qualify as a "member in very good standing" so to speak, and i wanted to gain more insight into this issue (we're still friends and no, we didn't break up over the size of his penis - or mine) it took some work on my part - and his to make sex a mutually satisfying experience. anyway...i think in some cases, you're probably just not going to be sexually compatible with some of your partners, it may be an issue that is strictly physical. but, in my experience, there has to be a certain amount of "teaching" from both sides. we're talking real, diligent communication here. i had to learn how to relax my throat (and my ass) i had to learn that during oral sex, no matter what i did, i wasn't going to be able to take my partner's dick all the way to the bush when he was erect (and i had to learn to stop trying, since all he was getting when i tried was a mouthful of teeth). i learned the value of spit, licking and stroking - and paying attention to his whole crotch region rather than just his dick. he learned the value of getting me good and hot before he attempted to penetrate me, because once i was revved up, i could take all of him (ah! and one important thing we always had to do was put it in once, then pull it all the way out, wait two seconds, and for some reason, after that, my butt was ready). the other aspect that i think was hugely valuable for me was that he was aware that he had a lot more than the average man, and was also aware that it could be a blessing and a curse, and he was cool with sort of re-teaching me how to have sex with him, because it would, in fact, be different in some ways from having sex with a more average guy. that in itself made me comfortable, and it spoke volumes about how special this person was, and so, i was motivated to stick with the program, so to speak. what's great, too, is that sexually i am far less rigid these days than i used to be, and better still, when i'm ready to seek a mate (as opposed to my wonderful fuckbuddies) my choice won't be narrowed by dick size.
i'm gonna throw in my two cents here. i'm an average guy, i joined this site because i was in a longterm relationship with someone who would qualify as a "member in very good standing" so to speak, and i wanted to gain more insight into this issue (we're still friends and no, we didn't break up over the size of his penis - or mine) it took some work on my part - and his to make sex a mutually satisfying experience. anyway...i think in some cases, you're probably just not going to be sexually compatible with some of your partners, it may be an issue that is strictly physical. but, in my experience, there has to be a certain amount of "teaching" from both sides. we're talking real, diligent communication here. i had to learn how to relax my throat (and my ass) i had to learn that during oral sex, no matter what i did, i wasn't going to be able to take my partner's dick all the way to the bush when he was erect (and i had to learn to stop trying, since all he was getting when i tried was a mouthful of teeth). i learned the value of spit, licking and stroking - and paying attention to his whole crotch region rather than just his dick. he learned the value of getting me good and hot before he attempted to penetrate me, because once i was revved up, i could take all of him (ah! and one important thing we always had to do was put it in once, then pull it all the way out, wait two seconds, and for some reason, after that, my butt was ready). the other aspect that i think was hugely valuable for me was that he was aware that he had a lot more than the average man, and was also aware that it could be a blessing and a curse, and he was cool with sort of re-teaching me how to have sex with him, because it would, in fact, be different in some ways from having sex with a more average guy. that in itself made me comfortable, and it spoke volumes about how special this person was, and so, i was motivated to stick with the program, so to speak. what's great, too, is that sexually i am far less rigid these days than i used to be, and better still, when i'm ready to seek a mate (as opposed to my wonderful fuckbuddies) my choice won't be narrowed by dick size.
alex
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- alex,
Island-
I have a buddy that I used to hang with who is a true 10x6. He always used to say the same things you said about his size being such an issue and guys not being able to handle it. But I could take his dick all the way to the base orally and my teeth absolutely never touched any part of it. I used to get him off in under 10 minutes using only my mouth/throat. (No wonder he was always asking me to come over unfortunately he recently moved to Calif ) Anyway, I agree with Pappy the right person is out there. I can speak from personal experience that there are guys who can satisfy a big dick orally and Im sure there are other guys (and women too) who can do it anally/vaginally. I guess the trick is finding that person AND falling for them relationship-wise
Alex
I have a buddy that I used to hang with who is a true 10x6. He always used to say the same things you said about his size being such an issue and guys not being able to handle it. But I could take his dick all the way to the base orally and my teeth absolutely never touched any part of it. I used to get him off in under 10 minutes using only my mouth/throat. (No wonder he was always asking me to come over unfortunately he recently moved to Calif
) Anyway, I agree with Pappy the right person is out there. I can speak from personal experience that there are guys who can satisfy a big dick orally and Im sure there are other guys (and women too) who can do it anally/vaginally. I guess the trick is finding that person AND falling for them relationship-wise
Alex
Hey Islandfoz
Yes I've discovered that being well endowed doesn't necessarily mean that me and a partner are going to have great sex. I've taken chicks to bed and been told there is no way they are gonna have sex because I'm too well endowed. It's a real turn off and very frustrating. I've had a few similar experiences with guys who just love to suck my dick and lick my balls but refuse to let me do anal point blank.
My current girlfriend thinks me being well endowed is great and although we have good regular sex she cannot take all of me.
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Yes I've discovered that being well endowed doesn't necessarily mean that me and a partner are going to have great sex. I've taken chicks to bed and been told there is no way they are gonna have sex because I'm too well endowed. It's a real turn off and very frustrating. I've had a few similar experiences with guys who just love to suck my dick and lick my balls but refuse to let me do anal point blank.
My current girlfriend thinks me being well endowed is great and although we have good regular sex she cannot take all of me.
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doug699: I can honestly say Im 8.75-9 and Ive been balls deep more than once
I think that anyone over about 7"-8" is going to have to resign themselves to the fact that they will never be fully engulfed, at least not vaginally. "Balls Deep" has no meaning for us.
I think that anyone over about 7"-8" is going to have to resign themselves to the fact that they will never be fully engulfed, at least not vaginally. "Balls Deep" has no meaning for us.
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madame_zora
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At the risk of sounding redundant, it's all about being comaptible! I find it frustrating that so many hung guys on here seem to be having so many problems being able to penetrate, and I'd like nothing more than to find someone with that problem! Yes, there are women who can take larger penises "balls deep", and they are about as rare as men with large penises.
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There has been only one girl that I have been with at my current size that I can call somewhat "compatible" But I have and had no interest in persuing a more than sex relationship with her. I think the chances of finding someone who is compatible with sex with a large penis and is also someone who you can live with is probably pretty rare, as rare as finding someone who could "fill you up" and would also be enough to want to spend non-sexual time with. Since those of us who have large penises or deep vaginas lay out of the average spectrum then our chances of hooking up become few and far between. I think those of us that have size issues can find a way to deal with it, and get around the ssues that come up. For those that have 12+" they basically have to deal with the fact that it is physically impossible to get all of your cock inside a vagina, its just something that is not gonna happen. There no use to focus on it and wish it were different, it would be like someone who had brown eyes obsessing about having blue eyes, and having contacts not be good enough. We have to accept who we are and stop being so focused on wishing for the things that we are to change.
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Yeah I think some of us have to accept we are very unlikely to have "balls deep" sex with chicks or guys. Maybe we should have some of the length lopped off? ONLY JOKING - I'd never do that but would any of you consider it?
Yeah I think some of us have to accept we are very unlikely to have "balls deep" sex with chicks or guys. Maybe we should have some of the length lopped off? ONLY JOKING - I'd never do that but would any of you consider it?
I am just average-size (with very large balls) but "Problem C" happens to me ALL THE TIME. Dude is just begging you to fuck him but his butthole is shut as tight as can be. Some lube, a finger, verbal coaching ("now relax") and patience and maybe you can get one finger in (two is a challenge). Even with one finger the muscles are still tense and you KNOW it's going to snap shut as soon as you get your finger out and try to get your member in. After all of this ritual you still have a condom and lube to worry about and by now Woody Woodpecker has lost interest in a major way. Who can blame a person for not staying aroused during this kind of ordeal? I'm what, 3 1/2" around, but you'd think I was 12" around given the difficulty I have getting it in there, so you see this problem is not exclusive to above-average endowments.
Message to the bottoms of the world: If you want to get fucked so bloody badly, LEARN SOME MUSCLE CONTROL AND LEARN TO OPEN THE DAMN THING UP AND TAKE A DICK IN THERE. Get a dildo or a cucumber and practice, practice, practice! Look at some "red hanky" porn to visualize the possibilities. And don't be indignant when I give up on you because you don't know how to accomplish the very thing you say you want.
Message to the bottoms of the world: If you want to get fucked so bloody badly, LEARN SOME MUSCLE CONTROL AND LEARN TO OPEN THE DAMN THING UP AND TAKE A DICK IN THERE. Get a dildo or a cucumber and practice, practice, practice! Look at some "red hanky" porn to visualize the possibilities. And don't be indignant when I give up on you because you don't know how to accomplish the very thing you say you want.
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