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Thank you for all the input :smile:.
...I feel as though there are so many people higher than her on the grief totem pole that she really needs someone to acknowledge her loss and let her know that she is important too.
I think I will also send a condolences card to the family as a whole.
Thanks again everyone :smile:.
I think you have identified here your most important role in this sad time for your friend. Children, husbands, wifes and parents of the deceased are quite rightly afforded the greatest sympathy. It seems sibllings are often expected to be strong and be the glue to hold things together. This can be a very difficult and stressful role, let alone dealing with their own grief.
Be there to hold your friends hand, hug her so that she can feel the warmth of your body and the beat of your heart, hold her gently and with calm if the grief becomes too strong.
I hope this is a positive experience for you, and brings you even closer to your friend.