Why is it that when I feel I'm bout to link up with a guy and I bring up things about being safe and using a condom, it's like it's a BIG turn off to some guys? I mean I'm negative and wanna keep it that way but going bareback.....nah can't do it. I mean I know once we get horny, yeah, we tend to think with the OTHER head but better to be safe than sorry. Shouldn't let a few moments of recklessness turn into a lifetime of problems ya know.