G-Spot Orgasm or Not? Help Make Me Happy... Does This Sound Familiar?

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  1. FlowerChick

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    After reading several posts on a woman's G-Spot... now I am beginning to wonder :confused: if I've ever really had a G-spot orgasm at my age... I know that I've never had the pure pleasure of actually squirting, and it's definitely something I'd love to explore and learn how to do, now and fast. I am wondering if this sounds familiar to several of the women reading this post as well, so here goes... :cool:

    My new current partner and I are on an exploration, a journey if you will, to enjoy this most intimate experience. The first time he was really getting into it with me, I had a "pee-like" feeling and didn't even realize he was massaging my G-spot, and had to stop and change up a bit. Upon my return home, I immediately did some research and Googled and came upon some interesting info, and yup, that's what was happening (the G-Spot), so then, I asked for it again of course when we were next together, how could I not, you ask?

    When my partner was stimulating my G-spot for which seemed like several minutes, definitely not seconds, I simply could not overcome the intense incredible pee feeling, despite my steadfast determination. I was going "out of my mind" and I have a strong will and much resolve as well, how could I not stop, but the intensity was too overwhelming, even for a girl like me, whose sex drive is currently on "full throttle!" Trust me, this lasted for SEVERAL MINUTES --

    At age 46 and never having had the G-Spot massaged properly by a patient experienced man who cared enough to do it properly, I suspect there's a lot of "squirtable" stuff stored away just waiting inside me, just waiting to gush for the right man, his "reward" if you will and hopefully, this very patient man, who is taking his time, to do it right.

    My question is, when I am playing alone with myself masturbating, I somehow get the feeling I am actually hitting my G-spot with my own adult toys, and my orgasm is all together different than my clitoral orgasms. However, the question is: is this simply a vaginal orgasm, or is this the amazing G-spot orgasm? My body is not shaking all over as some men and women suggest is the Big G-spot O, however.

    I am just dying to experience the Big O from the G, but am having some serious challenges overcoming the intense pee feeling that lasts for a heck of a long time; it just doesn't seem to go away ever... enough so that I feel I can overcome this that it just becomes frustrating.

    Any suggestions? I know I should probably try to relax a bit more, let it come naturally, which may help. I am not drinking alcohol either. I am also urinating before we start our session and am getting plenty of oil to loosen up, and lots of great stimulating oral sex prior to attempting the G-Spot journey, which is wonderful.

    My new partner is actually an excellent lover, rating him an A most certainly. Things were very heated up recently, so intense the endorphins were pumping through my veins so much so, that I can now stay that I was on a natural "sexual" high -- what an unbelievable mystical magical feeling I had with my new partner, all very new to me as we get to know each other and experience wonderful enticing things about each other's sexuality.

    Now, if I can really discover the Big O with my G-Spot and get my body shaking all over, I think I'll be in Seventh Heaven.... (I'll be shakin' and snappin my fingers, movin' round and round, shakin' my tits until the middle of the night, turnin up the music just as loud as it will go, shakin -- you get the idea, right?!) We'll all be VERY HAPPY!

    Please help me find, discover, recognize, realize my big pent-up gushable squirt(s) to ultimately satisfy me and my new guy friend and make it an amazing day! Any ideas, suggestions, questions, comments, I can respond to you. From what I gather, there are other women with similar stories and may likely benefit from some other's experiences. Many thanks to you for reading the post. :wink:

    Flower Chick (searching for G and my Big O!)
     
  2. ManlyBanisters

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    Each of us is different - I have never squirted, but I have had g-spot orgasms.

    Maybe what you experienced with your toys was a g-spot orgasm, or maybe it was a vaginal orgasm with some g-spot stimulation going on at the same time. I can't say for sure but I do suggest you keep playing with it.

    The other thing I have read, and heard from other women, is that when you get the 'pee feeling' you should give in to it - relax the muscles that would normally hold back the pee and you will squirt. Because if you have peed before sex and are therefore empty of urine that 'pee feeling' is not a pee feeling but a squirt feeling. Not something I've managed myself - I do give in to the pee feeling and I do cum, I just don't squirt.

    The g-spot orgasms I have are mostly when my man is fingering and licking me and they are really very different, deep and profound. I also get a lot of g-spot stimulation when he fucks me, thanks in part to his length, girth and curve, but mainly because he knows how to fuck me just right.

    You really just have to keep exploring - your body is unique and the only way to get there is to keep trying. Good luck - let us know how you get on :smile:
     
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    How about when you are being fisted impersonally? :tongue:

    :rolleyes:
     
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    *pictures checking my email with one hand and fisting with the other*

    :eek:

    You know - I don't think in that situation I could give you anything other than my full attention, unless maybe Hick was fucking me at the same time.

    Oh dang - now I've gone and made myself all horny. :rolleyes:
     
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    I'm trying, I'm trying.. I'm trying to let go, the pee feeling is sooo intense. I wonder if it's just because it's JUST NEVER HAPPENED FOR ME, YET. I don't have any fears about peeing, I'm over that fear, maybe I'm trying too hard. I don't have any inhibitions about the whole thing either. My partner tells me I tend to stop breathing and he tells me to "breath," so I know it's pretty intense for me...I think sometimes I become lightheaded, partly because I'm not breathing so there's a lack of oxygen too. Perhaps I'm just trying too hard and I'm all caught up in the effort.

    I suspect I'm getting a vaginal orgasm with a bit of G-spot stimulation, and not the full-blown G-Spot earth-shattering orgasm. We'll keep trying. I suppose the whole neighborhood is going to hear about this one when it happens for me because everything I'm reading and from a video I saw with a demonstration, it surely seems absolutely amazing for her and one for which I am most assuredly going to keep trying. I love having sex and being with my new partner and I know he is extremely patient wanting to please me and he's going to love bringing me to this point, so much so I know he's will want to do it again, and again, and again! Thanks Ladies and Guys! I'll keep you posted -- we'll have a party when it finally happens!

    FLower Chick.. .(Continuing to Search for that Amazing Big O with the G!)
     
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    I used to hold back when I got that pee feeling because I didn't know what it was. Then one time I squirted and it was amazing. At the time I didn't even know squirting was possible, let alone something I could do! We were in a crazy position with me on the bottom, my ankles on him and only my shoulder blades touching the bed. All of a sudden it started raining. It scared the heck out of me because I didn't know what was happening. I was squirting up onto his chest and it was showering down on me. It was so amazing that we did it again later that night.

    Sometimes he just spends time with three or four fingers inside of me, curved upwards towards my g-spot and fucks me really hard with his hand. I will squirt as many times as he wants or until I beg him to stop. Talk about a puddle! It is insane. If his hands weren't so big I'd totally be into fisting. :biggrin1:
     
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    Hey there, I suspect when I was having this most intense feeling and he was holding me closely, and I was literally going out of my mind, the endorphins were pumping fast, he must have had his entire fist inside of me. I didn't stop to ask him or look, but he certainly feels different than from what I can do with masturbation and my own adult toys I have been experimenting with trying to re-create the experience. The entire event, the moments, not seconds of the feeling, the intensity was something I have never ever experienced before, and can honesty say "it hurt so good," but questioned myself, "when is it going to stop,?" WTF? How much can I stand of this before I'm going to pass out? I was encouraged to "breath," because apparently I stopped breathing I guess it was so intense, and I was becoming light headed, a really euphoric state.

    Trust me I'm trying and would give myself an "A" for effort and am now discovering through posts, replies, the pee-feeling is a build up of the ejaculate in the urethra, and for god sake's there must be a helluva a lot after 46 years -up build within me, that we shall probably break out a f...kig umbrella... LMAO! Because somebody is going to get a cum shower when it FINALLY happens... LOL! I've been trying all weekend myself but it's not quite the same without him I'll admit, the sexual energy is lacking, need him and his passion for the "icing on the cake," if you will. Thanks for your post, so very much appreciate your thoughts and encouragement.
     
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    So here it is about a month later, and recently my partner and I tried something new for us. And I had a very intense orgasm, although something strange to me occurred during/afterwards....

    We began kissing intensely for a while. Then he began to play with my very sensitive
    breasts and nipples. From there we began to play with the "toys." After laying on sofa a bit he could tell I needed/wanted something larger (more stimulating), deeper to get the reaction he was looking for -- me having a wild orgasm with a huge release. I know he wants me to squirt, and I still am discovering this within my body. Not only do I have trouble climaxing with him, I am still on a journey to master "my" squirtin.

    So my partner positioned me on the sofa with a large sofa cushion placed under my bottom. The angle provided different feelings, he used a couple of different vibrators, culminating in the use of a g-spot vibrator. He also had oral sex at one point, playing masterfully with my clitoris. The feeling was amazing, pure ecstacy in a way. I know I e eventually came, however still no squirting ..

    Then upon gathering myself I noticed that my hearing had become impaired. When I would speak. It seemed as if when I spoke, there was a bit of sound that seemed like I was like an echo chamber. It was an odd occurrence I never experienced before. I knew I liked the position as this always seems to bring on more intense orgasms.

    Has anyone had this temporary loss of hearing during or after sex? My hearing came back as we continued with more playing in his bedroom.

    This time when we got together. I had taken about 25 mg of Viagra, plus enjoyed a very quick drink prior to are encounter.

    Any thoughts? Comments as to hearing loss? Would appreciate HEARING some feedback, input on this.

    Thanks for all your posts!

    FlowerChick
     
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    Let go.

    You need to fully surrender yourself to your lover. You need to completely give up control over your own body. Don't hold back. Don't hold back on the pee reflect. Just let go.

    You need to fully trust your partner. This is your most vulnerable moment and if you have any doubts about his masculinity and integrity you will not be able to fully let go.

    It also helps if he is not overly focused about you, but rather about his own pleasure which will make it so much more pleasurable for you.
     
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    YES, I regularly (about half the time) experience loss of hearing after a really good and proper orgasm.
     
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    Huh? (grin, smile!)

    Well, that's good to know, I'm not the ONLY woman who has had some impairment with her hearing. This orgasm was pretty intense, and I suppose my body is telling me something. Can't wait to lose my hearing again, and again, again... never ever has that occurred to me with a man or by myself!:biggrin1:
     
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    Wow, I just Googled this, and found out that ED drugs can affect hearing... For the first time along with him, I took about 50 mg of Viagra, to help with circulation, etc. I am also taking an SSRI which I suspect is causing some minor FSD, and wanted to explore the Viagra... Here's what I found about ED drugs and hearing impairment, warnings to be aware of..
    ED Drugs Get Hearing Loss Warning
     
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