My girlfriend isn't a virgin, but at the same time isn't "experienced". When I'm fingering her and I do the always-talked-about "come here" motion, she doesn't like it. She says it feels like she has to pee. Sex is the same. I'm not huge by any means so I barely hit her G-Spot from behind, but if I do she tenses up because of the whole having to pee thing. Did you ladies have a similar introduction to your G-Spots? Like, is it something that feels wierd at first and is acquired or should I just give up on giving her a G-Spot orgasm?