G,Y and L

Discussion in 'Underwear, Clothing, and Appearance Issues' started by Aruba 1st, Sep 25, 2005.

  1. Aruba 1st

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    A Proud, Fellow, LPSG Member has granted members of the opposite sex permission to feel his organ(s) to determine if they / it, is / are "real".

    Should this be permissible ?
    Should this freedom be labelled "Proceed at Your Own Risk" when discussed ?

    Specifically:

    Should it be alright for a lady to reach inside a fellas pants to fondle his equipment in order to determine if he is "real" ?

    Should it be alright for a man to reach inside a lady's blouse to fondle her equipment in order to determine if she is "real" ?

    Not a poll.
    Simply a question.

    Another question.

    Should this behavior be encouraged ?

    If not.

    Can you suggest a "penalty" for encouraging such ?
    Can you suggest a penalty for receiving such ?
    Should I shut up ?
    8^(
     
  2. wonderland

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    I don't invite guys to feel me up. If a guy thinks they are too big to be real it is his problem.
    I don't pick a guy by his penis size. Sso unless I was very drunk I would not feel a guy up to see if it was real.
    But if someone is confortable letting people grope them then why not.
     
  3. madame_zora

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    I would think it was kind of hot if I was into the guy anyway. If I didn't think he was my type, an offer like that wouldn't do much for me.

    Conversely, since I sell stripper's costumes I spend a lot of time in strip clubs. Tonight I had a guy help himself to my crotch as I walked past. Needless to say he got slapped right off his barstool. Permission, folks!
     
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    Y'know, I might grope you JUST to get slapped, MZ.

    OUCH and WOOF. Grrr, too! ;)

    SPANK ME, BABAY!!
     
  5. Dr Rock

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    hell, people traditionally do it to me without even asking. I've pretty much given up trying to regulate it at this point.
     
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    Perfect answer mighty Lex
     
  7. Dr. Dilznick

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    Depends on the "lady." You let heifers or unattractive skeezers know from the get-go that shit will not be going down. Body language. It's all body language.
     
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    H-m-m.
    As an excuse -
    most of us would "write-off" personal contact while drinking as just that,
    as well as accidental (?) bumps while dancing.

    I agree with this point;
    a problem may arise after one has decide or guessed that it's alright and it was NOT.

    IMHO there isn't much difference between a man taking advantage of a women or vice versa. Most would not welcome fondling.
     
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    What does "G, Y. and L" stand for?
     
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    I was reading the topic in this same forum titled “adorning the Speedo,” and one of the last posts made reference to GYl as “grab, yank, and look.” It was referring to grabbing a Speedo, yanking it down and looking (from what I can gather.) Full discussion here- http://www.lpsg.org/forum/index.php?showtopic=14371&st=20
     
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    Thanks, dolf!
     
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    Workin' up a good pot of mad!
    Wow,

    I must be hopelessly old fashioned, but I think that is unbelievably crass. I think the most crucial think here is context. Under the wrong circumstances and with the wrong man she could find herself facing a great big fat sexual assualt and battery charge.

    Naughty
     
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    Don't mess with the Zora!...... she will kick your ass! :bigsmile:
     
  14. Dr. Dilznick

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    Um, girls have been doing this to me since elementary school, but mostly in social settings post diploma. It's like a free invite to grab an ass; they are feeling horny and can't logically object and it's the most low-base flirting tactic. Just grab a dick, he'll have to talk then. No memo went out. It's like admiring a car from afar and then taking a look under the hood, or at least kicking the tire.

    If I went palming girls' crotches I'm sure someone'd yell rape sooner or later, as they should, but because they're girls, they can get away with what they want with a pretty smile and a fluttering of the lashes. That's why they grab our dicks. Because they can.
     
  15. Dr Rock

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    who lives in the east 'neath the willow tree? Sex
    if someone I don't know suddenly makes a grab at any part of me, they're likely to receive an instinctive smack in the mouth before I even bother to check their gender. it's a survival reflex, I guess.
     
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    Thank you Dolf250.
     
  17. jonb

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    No, and no. If you fondle without permission, expect to get bitch slapped. It is, after all, a form of sexual assault.
     
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    You’re welcome. As far as somebody grabbing my crotch and pulling my pants down- forget it. As much as I am not into mind games I want a girl who plays a little harder to get than that. I was hit on a bit working ladies night- but even when they are drunk most women have better judgment than that.
     
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