Gagging when receiving oral a turn off?

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I'm a fan of giving oral sex and love to deep throat. I always try to avoid gagging and if I do gag, I try to 'disguise' the fact that I gagged. I feel like the gagging will be a turn off for the guy, but many guys here say they like it when the giver gags. So I'm wondering if there are guys here who find gagging a turn off?

I'm like you. I think the sound of gagging is unattractive and I always try to hide it whenever I do. My hubby will look concerned and stop and ask me if I'm okay if it's obvious that I'm gagging. I get the impression that he doesn't enjoy the idea of me feeling like that, like my cookies are about to come up. I think it interferes with his ability to let go and enjoy himself.

Anyone else notice that almost all of the straight guys here said YES, and the gay ones said NO? Not a shocker to me at all.

I'm a big fan of straight porn, and have watched it for many years. One thing I've noticed in the past decade or so is the decided shift toward violence and degradation in mainstream straight porn. Women being gagged by cocks is only the beginning. The fetish of throttling (choking) a woman is also becoming very prevalent, as is slapping her in the face, and spitting on her. I know it has always been around, but it that type of porn was always a fringe, fetish thing. Now, it's gone mainstream, and I predict that it will dominate porn soon. The frustrating thing is that people never step back to notice these things, or to ask why someone would find it hot, not to mention thinking about whether it's a good thing for society to see women treated this way.

Whatever happened to good ol' fashioned fucking and sucking? Why do we need to hurt or humiliate someone to get off?

It disturbs me, too!

A girl gagging to the point that she has tears coming down her face? Not at all.

I often cry from trying to deep throat, since I haven't mastered it the way that FleshLightMouth has, but my hubby doesn't like it. It concerns him and he'll stop and ask me if I'm okay.

Anything a woman does unintentionally that shows a guy he's packing heat is quite the turn on.

Guys who imagine that a large penis is required to cause gagging are so wrong. The distance from my lips to the back of my throat is 3" so how does that show that a guy is "packing heat"? It's a false measure of size and nothing to be proud of. I can gag from a finger and I have really tiny hands.
 
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Given the choice between a gagger and non-gagger I'll take a non-gagger. I've found if my partner hangs his head over the edge of the bed and I stand on floor and feed it to him gradually the gag reflex seems to usually go away and then we can really have some fun. I love it when there's no gag reflex.
Re: Porn. Come on... Porn is performance art. There is a difference between generating an image and living real life.
 
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I generally don't gag. Back when I couldnt deepthroat well I would gag a lot. Generally, guys seemed unnerved and worried they hurt me or grossed out.
But, if I get the idea it will turn a guy on I'll purposely angle so I gag a bit. Not a full on gagging up a lung but a little gag and Then gasp for breath. When I'm sucking it is all about feeding his ego and creating his ideal experience. Custom cocksucking, LOL.
Now, for me...I don't like a guy or women gagging over my cock. It totally turns me off. Weird I know. Love to be gagged on it but don't gag on mine.
 

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Though I try my best not to gag, and hide it as best I can when I do, I don't really mind that much when it happens if I ultimately please my partner and get better at deep throating. I don't mind the watery eyes either...shows I made an effort.

That said, when I do make somebody gag while deep throating me, I do get concerned and ask if they're alright.
 

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It's only polite to gag, isn't it?

I find the sound unattractive so I avoid it if I can but it's not always possible.

Since we're on the topic, can you guys describe the sensation of the throat convulsing on your cock? Good? Bad?
 

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I think its hott when the sucker gags on my cock. Although, I don't want it to keep happening or last for a long time...
 
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I find it really turns me off if I'm watching straight porn and the chick has the cock forced into her throat and she makes horrible gagging sounds. I don't know how that could be attractive to anyone and makes you wonder about what young boys first experiencing porn and seeing something like that must think.
I'm gay and love sucking cock, and whenever I do gag I usually laugh it off or smile and keep going. That to me is far sexier than ignoring it and just making that awful noise like you were a robot. The best head I've ever received was from guys who I could grab hold of and pound like I were fucking them. Not a single gag and taken all the way down. THAT's a good cocksucker.