Have you asked a guy: "Is it in yet?" I've heard that one before. I'm sure she didn't mean anything negative towards me by it, she just didn't know if it was in or not. "Deeper". I've heard that one also. Under the wrong circumstance it is not a good thing to say. I was already in balls deep and after she said that I could somehow tell she realised what she had just said and realised I had been going as deep as I could and she was trying to think of something to say to undo that. Then she says "I want to feel all of you." Nice try. Was called a "Pencil dick" once during an argument. The argument had nothing to do with sex, when suddenly she pulls that out of the blue. She later that day cried about saying that to me and said she didn't mean it, so I dropped it. We eventually broke up and before we did I brought that comment up. She actually denied having ever said it.