Gals, have you ever just laid there as the guy pounded away furiously (penis size)?

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  1. B_superlarge

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    Have you ever just looked at guy with sort of a blank look on your face as he pounded away like a locomotive, and he could see your lack of emotion, and then when he was through he collapsed breathless but you weren't the least worn out?
    Was it because he just didn't have enough dick? Did he want to have sex with you again? Did you want to have sex with him again?
     
  2. nay-nay

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    i've been guilty of that. he was really small and i couldn't feel it. one day he kept bugging me that he wanted some so i finally just gave in. i wasn't even wet at all, he had to use lube. all i did was lay there, thinking "k, get it over with. do what you gotta do." :rolleyes: haha. probably explains why we aren't together anymore. i just wasn't into the sex. it was boring, the same all the time, and it was so small i couldn't feel it. it was very frustrating. so i'd always play with my 12 inch vibrator, and i'm pretty sure it made him even more insecure about his size.
     
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    Yup... I cross my arms over my chest sometimes too.. but it's not cause it's good.
     
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    Even though I was average size I had some women who just didn't react at all, no matter what I tried. That was what sparked my question. At the time I thought they might be frigid, but I've come to realise it was probably more often my girth. I was 4.5" mid shaft and 4.75" base (5" girth nowdays from penis enlargement). Many gals I picked up in bars (and I witnessed over time other guy(s) leaving with a few of the same ones) and I think some of them were use to getting some big dicking and I believe I just couldn't put it on them like some thick and longer dicks had. One hung guy (extra length and very thick) in particular made the rounds from club to club back then and I know he fucked many women. Several women talked about his size. His flaccid alone was big in his pants as he wore it to the side, and I witnessed that alone get it's share of chicks' attention and because of that he usually didn't even have to work at it much picking up some of them. The thing about one night stands is penis size carries more weight when other relationship factors aren't mentally involved. I recall one chick I picked up and even though she just laid there she was built like a brick house and I liked her personality so I decided to talk to her some more later that week. Later that week at one point she is telling me about a truck driver that always stops by to see her once a week or so (she was so easy for me to pick up I wasn't too surprised at this news, though it did catch me a bit off guard) and then when she described him I suddenly knew who she was talking about and from having been around him and from what others had said I knew he was a braggart about his penis size. Even though she wasn't my gf or anything, it bothered me that he was fucking her once a week with a bigger dick (and apparently it was worth it for him to keep coming back and for her to allow it) and she had laid there dead with me like she was definitely use to a lot more and she clearly showed no interest in us hooking up in bed again. So after that I just didn't talk to her anymore, even though she really was a nice person to talk to, and I felt sort of bad about it.
     
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    If im just laying there not into it and he couldn't care less, then that basically signifies the end of the relationship for me. I'm not interested in being with someone who is only concerned with pleasing them self.

    And yes it has happened, and yes the relationship was ended within a few days
     
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    Only once, but it was dry "humping" with clothes on, I was young, and in shock that it was happening. I had only been with one man, it was my first year in college, and this guy was going at it on top of me like a jack rabbit. Basically, he was masturbating himself thru his pants between my thighs, and never even noticed I was just lying there.

    I just held on, waited for him to get done and leave, and never went out with him again, despite being asked several times. I found out later he had a girlfriend and she was "Miss Alaska". When I met her, it was sooooo hard not to say something.
     
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    I think I may be guilty of this... I was not able to feel 4 of the guys I've been with, although one of these 4 was really good with his hands, so I wasn't that way with him. The other 3, yeah, probably... Two of those 3 I was only with for one night. The other I kind of saw off and on for a couple of months, I wanted to give it a try but he was just too small for me to feel - and he wasn't even the smallest I've been with - the smallest was one of the one-nighters.

    Interestingly, I have been told that I was tight (by the latest guy I've been with - a big guy), and have also have been told that I'm "deeper" than most women (by my longest-term guy - also a big guy).
     
  9. Mr. Snakey

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    Ive never had this happen with a woman just lay there like a dead fish. This must really be a blow to a guys ego. I allways got pleasure out of giving pleasure and looked upon sex as a kind of Boxing match. If i wasnt prepared and in good shape i would surely lose and the woman wouldnt have a good time
     
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    Baby, that is because you are a sweetheart and care about your women, unfortantly not all men are like that and many are having sex for themselves regardless of if the woman is enjoying it
     
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    That is because you're mama raised you right. You are truly a prince among men.


    True that girlfriend!
     
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    well if your just laying there it dosn't seem like you want to please him either
     
  13. Principessa

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    But if his dick feels like a highlighter rattling around in a soup can, moving isn't going to make it better. The goal at that point is just to get him to stop.
     
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    True. But it also means im not in the mood and would have told him this prior but probably gave in to shut him up whinging so i could get some sleep. Its all about realize your partner isn't "ready" 24/7 and respecting that.

    Also, being 'pounded' isnt actually as fun for us women as it is for you men. Good sex should include variety of thrusts and strokes, not just a boring full blown pounding
     
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    hahaha! nice comparison there. perfect. :biggrin1:
     
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    A highlighter in a soup can? Lovely imagery there... you should be a children's author.
     
  17. Principessa

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    hahahaha oh you Aussies do know how to flatter a girl don't you.:tongue: No wonder there's so many of you, you just charm the panties right off the sheilas. :wink:
     
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    Yes, I have had that experience. No, I never slept with anyof them again. it had nothing to do with size and everything to do with lack of skill, compassion or interest on the guy's part. A guy with skill and compassion dosen't do that.

    Is it boring to just bang away at someone? isn't it boring to be just banged upon? really, why bother? it's like eating bad food because it's there...

    sex without emotion, to me, is boring.
     
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    my girlfriend just lays there,and rarely gets "wet"
    she always says she wants lube.

    once she said "oh gosh" whilst fucking...that was a real ego boost.

    she never seemed to be taken by my size.
    when i mentioned she might dig something bigger she agreed
    saying something bigger would hit more spots.
    i used to think i was "big" but that changed when i met her.
    i know that to her i am MIGHTY MOUSE!
     
  20. EagleCowboy

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    I can safely say that I've only had ONE that did that. It didn't matter what I did or how hard I tried to get her off. She would just do that. I will say this; the sex was only good if she hadn't had any in 3 months, then she was like a porn queen. Otherwise, I felt like an unwanted BB in a boxcar.

    I think there was a few things against me concerning her, though.

    Her 3 favorite things to do:
    1 She WORSHIPED Designing Women.
    2 Filed her nails constantly to a sharp point. Hence the scars on my back.
    3 Run men down.


    All the others have wanted repeat command performances. (keeps fingers crossed) I've said it before, and I'll say it again. If I can't make her knock holes in the walls, and gasp for air at least once, I'm wasting both of our times, and I have no problem packing it in, and going home.
     
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